[Mes T]

Google. Do a search for this stuff in your area.

[Olympia]

I am just poking my nose into your and WC's comunication....

There are many books on the subject of Tantra.... In the past, I have read a couple on this subject. I found them very interesting. There also is a free online Tantra Sex Chakra Yoga site... I have not explored this site, but it may give you an idea....or local contact..

[stressed]

I haven't read about tantra, or any books of the kind (although perhaps I should), but what I can tell you is that you can definitely find a woman who would love you and want to experiment sexually with you. I understand it is a difficult subject to discuss, but you certainly have many chances of finding a woman who would want you the way you are and who would want to read books with you, make you feel better about this all. It's about having faith in people and trusting the right ones. Books are a great start, but don't lose faith in women. There are wonderful women out there who would understand you and want to experiment with you.

[liminal]

I haven't read about tantra, or any books of the kind (although perhaps I should), but what I can tell you is that you can definitely find a woman who would love you and want to experiment sexually with you. I understand it is a difficult subject to discuss, but you certainly have many chances of finding a woman who would want you the way you are and who would want to read books with you, make you feel better about this all. It's about having faith in people and trusting the right ones. Books are a great start, but don't lose faith in women. There are wonderful women out there who would understand you and want to experiment with you.

Thank you, you are right. I am going to try to get out there more. I think with Eharmony. I tried match.com but I did not it's whole head shot only approach to finding peoples profiles. I did contact somebody in the Tantric field yesterday. Hopefully she will get back to me. I am not sure what this person does. Perhaps its a kind of over glorified escort service. lol. I don't know.

[stressed]

I think it's wonderful that you want to change your life and are optimistic! You're eager to learn, explore, wait for the right time. Those are qualities women notice and love in a man. You seem eager 100 times more than many men who feel more during sex and just take it all for granted. Many men don't read books, they don't care about pleasing their partner, they don't even care about sex at all (a number of men just prefers porn instead) or go to the doctor when they notice that something might be wrong. You have all the qualities of a caring partner and this is valued more than sex itself.

I find it great that you contact women, be it in the Tantric field or other. You will certainly learn something new (we all would) and the chances of finding someone only rise. You're doing the right thing in every way.

[avelana44]

I am a woman who is almost always physically unable to have sex so I know how it feels to be on that side. I could never make someone feel worse about that. If I am in love with them, I am with them sex or no sex. Doesn't matter. My boyfriend has stood next to me even though it's been very very hard. If it's real love, if you want it to last a life time.. you'll find a compromise or some way around it. Just my opinions though.