[sarahlee20]

I would personally try before you buy so to speak. Just because like you sex is important to me in a relationship too. To me it really ties everyhing together. NOt only does the person know you and you get along in all other departments. To me it would make sence to only be with someone in that way too. It is also a deciding factor in seeing someone long term or not. Like you I'd want to know if they can satisfy me in that department. I believe if your like me it'd really put your mind at ease. All i can say is if your going to persue it to wear protection and make sure you're all safe and both been tested. If that's a good then go for it and good luck and enjoy!

[teenie]

yeah i tried it...i'm still new to it so i need some practise to see what works but i'm in no rush just yet. I want to savour it and save most till after we are married so i want to keep things a bit boring and far between for now.