My opinion? Is, it's an equal thing, there is intimacy, beauty, if he takes too long? Then my body is like, ahh so many times, in which case, I switch, work on him in any fashion I choose and make him cum, that makes him feel all his efforts were well spent....
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15 minutes is the top of my limit or I start to get too sore!!Comment
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"We average about 15 minutes now"
That seems like the perfect amount of time... what's the problem exactly?
I can understand the 45-90 min sessions were a bit on the painful side, but 15 mins? That's perfectly normal...Comment
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wow, I read this and well my boyfriend is a quick one but truth be told I don't mind I just like being close to him. Sometimes he's longer and it's just like wow! but the sometimes he just cums faster but truth be told I don't time us, I would think you'd be more focused on your partner then the clock...Comment
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My bf and i recently just had sex for the first time. We joked he'd last 5 seconds maximum. Because i was a "tight" virgin. It was only after the third hour of sex that i realized, he hadn't cum yet.
*doom upon me*
I know think i'm a horrible lay!
He insists it's this and that, but i don't really believe him. So.....yes i would say some of us sensitive ones will be offended. Though technically...i liked that he lasted that long, but i'd rather he come several times (he has a REALLY short recovery period) then hold on for the whole time, or just take that long to work up to it.Comment
Did you change positions? Often that will help speed things up. I find I don't last more than a few minutes in doggy position.
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