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Don't give up on yourself so easily

I used to have the same problem, I didn't like the consistency and it was difficult to swallow. It was important to him that I swallow, so I did not give up easily. If I just threw up my hands at the first sign of difficulty, I'd never have gotten anywhere in life and I sure as heck wasn't going to give up without giving it my all! So I did my best to ignore the taste and texture and swallowed anyway. I had a little difficulty the first several times, but that was it. After a little while, very surprisingly to me, I started to like the taste and texture. These days I don't have any problem at all swallowing. It's actually fun and enjoyable and I like doing it. So anyway, if the relationship is worth having at all, please don't listen to the naysayers and don't give up so easily on yourself.

[WildChild]

I have no problem swallowing although it really depends on the man. Some do need to change their diet, drink more water and cum more frequently to make their cum tastier and less thick.

[Tod]

Dear Ladies!

Please imagine that your lover gives you head and right when you are about to orgasm he/she stops licking your clit and start doing something that you also like but not as much as clit-licking. You were on the edge so you could orgasm, but was it the same? In my case, there is no word that can describe how awesome it feels to come in my girlfriends mouth. Her mouth playing on the head while i'm ejaculating makes the orgasm much more stronger. No wonder men ask for, that I can tell.
Furthermore, you don't have to swallow to complete the exprecience for us. If you like the taste of the product you can keep it in your mouth along with the head till your boyfriend calms down, then you can spit, or you spit it in your palm and use it as lubricant to give a gentle post-oral handjob. If you don't like the taste make sure you play with the head gently with your fingers whe the fireworks happening.

[Jimbeau]

Dear Ladies!

Please imagine that your lover gives you head and right when you are about to orgasm he/she stops licking your clit and start doing something that you also like but not as much as clit-licking. You were on the edge so you could orgasm, but was it the same? In my case, there is no word that can describe how awesome it feels to come in my girlfriends mouth. Her mouth playing on the head while i'm ejaculating makes the orgasm much more stronger. No wonder men ask for, that I can tell.
Furthermore, you don't have to swallow to complete the exprecience for us. If you like the taste of the product you can keep it in your mouth along with the head till your boyfriend calms down, then you can spit, or you spit it in your palm and use it as lubricant to give a gentle post-oral handjob. If you don't like the taste make sure you play with the head gently with your fingers whe the fireworks happening.

Maybe I'm old fashioned but a gentleman shouldn't expect a lady to do something she doesn't care for, just because he does. Better to move on to something else that both enjoy.

[Tod]

Jimbeau: Going down on my lady and playing all kinds of games during that does not give me anything pleasurable *physically*, but I'm more than happy when I look at her during and afterwards and I see her face shining with happines. The point is, lot of people don't understand what oral sex is about. It's not something that you get/give in return for something specific. It is a gesture that tells the other one that you accept her completly and all you want to do for the next hour or so is making her forget about everything, making her feel special and loved for who she is.
I don't care whether my back/thounge/jaw/neck hurts during it, I don't care about how much time passed. Oral is about the pleasure of one person and one only, so the other one often has to compromise or at least try that really hard before giving up.

[Jimbeau]

Jimbeau: Going down on my lady and playing all kinds of games during that does not give me anything pleasurable *physically*, but I'm more than happy when I look at her during and afterwards and I see her face shining with happines. The point is, lot of people don't understand what oral sex is about. It's not something that you get/give in return for something specific. It is a gesture that tells the other one that you accept her completly and all you want to do for the next hour or so is making her forget about everything, making her feel special and loved for who she is.
I don't care whether my back/thounge/jaw/neck hurts during it, I don't care about how much time passed. Oral is about the pleasure of one person and one only, so the other one often has to compromise or at least try that really hard before giving up.

Oh no, I would expect you to do that. That's your duty as a gentleman. I just wouldn't expect her to do the same unless she enjoys it. I'd adhere to a strict double standard in such matters.

[Tod]

Jimbeau: It's nothing but normal to have limitations but it feels good to exceed them for a good cause at least once in a while.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

The woman has to "want" to try, for their man, but you know, if wipping up spew that your dog just did, makes you gag, eyes water, feel sick, be sick, and swallowing, or keeping it in your mouth makes her feel the same, then in my opinion, Jimbeau is correct, it shouldn't be expected, there is no room for compromise, she can't do it and shouldn't be made to feel that she "has to", because you, the man sacrificed and that is what sex is all about in love, as that's not the case...

Nor should she be made to feel bad, in-adequate, wrong...or that her man expects that she should even in those circumstances, as it's a good cause

[Tod]

CHANDLERS WISH: Let me guess. You're divorced and had more than one relationship with really bad sexual life. Correct? (And please don't ban me just yet, I just want to make a point.)

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Well, I haven't laughed for a while, thanks...

Firstly, I don't put myself in the position when answering a thread, rather the persons... It's not my life I am talking about.

Secondly, if this thread starts to go off topic for the OP, I'm pulling it back..

Thirdly, you can pose questions, why woudl I ban you?

Lastly, separated, selfish lovers (past), - me, no inhibitions, I love oral, I give oral, and I love to achieve, get and see the results...and I'm well looked after as well. I'm a little vixen, in a relationship, living together, and have a step daughter to be and will re-marry once I am Divorced off course... And, if I go back to my 20's, really excellent sexual life... So, na, not correct...

Let's say 3 years on this Forum, teaches you alot about people, their phsyc and what they can take and not take, and you'll note that I promote, "let go of your inhibitions", if your in a solid relationship...

CW