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You do what works for you.
Forget what actors in the movies or porn do.
I read a study a while back that found most people really aren't very vocal at orgasm. Sometimes I'm very vocal and other times very quiet. But if I try to follow someone's script, I'm thinking abou that and not as into what I am experiencing. It lowere the intensity. -
Most of the time I couldn't tell you because I'm so out of my head at that moment I can't be bothered to pay attention lol. I do know that sometimes I can be very loud and sometimes I barely make noise but it's not really indicative of how good my orgasm is. I've had some of my most intense ones without making much noise at all.Comment
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The times I have had an orgasm it is more of a slight sigh or quiet moan follow by a few louder exhales. I am by no means a vocal person even outside of the bedroom so I doubt I would ever go into full on squealing high pitched whine or screams though...but maybe one day it will randomly happen.There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.Comment
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I am a vocal person but the nature of my sexual relationship (bdsm) encourages me to be vocal to an extent.
I never thought I was loud. I will say it depends on the type of orgasm I am having and if they are stacked or not. If it is a hard one I tend to be a little more of a deep moaning kinda person......if they are stacked I am so far out of my mind I couldn't tell you one way or the other.Comment
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Just ride that train on out - and if she whistles, then woohoo!, all the better.
I never focus on sounds I make, though I'm sure my wife may; but, I can tell you that she lets it rip as the situation demands. In other words, if its a long, slow and quiet rythmic session, she is more quiet pleasurable moaning - until the boom, then all bets are off and the banshee, comes to life for a minute or so... On the other hand, if it's a hang by the bedposts/swing from the curtain-rods kind of night, she lets the neighbors know that she is definately having a good time. Even if we weren't already introduced to them, they would probably know my name by now.
We've decided that life is too short to be hung up on watching what we say, or do, or how we express ourselves during sex, and the explosive orgasm.
Heck, make the whole danged neighborhood jellous knowing that you are having "peeling the paint off the wall" sex!
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