[LanaBear]

Can I make an observation in between these comments?

What about the guy here? I have sort of an issue that I find odd... We seem to have to find a "happy medium" in how much time we spend in foreplay because though it definately works her (and I) up, if we make forefplay last too long (over say an hour), she will orgasm quickly, and even have numerous, but (at least in my case) I can't seem to orgasm easily at all. Seems the longer we foreplay the longer I go without getting "that feeling" and working it up to an orgasm. Anyone else experience this? Now don't get me wrond, sometimes this is a bonus, if she wants to go marathon, but if she doesnt I can be somewhat left behind... Not sure if you all know what I mean here but in any case, we have to find a happy medium with us, and make foreplay last just long enough and not too long. I think its all dependent upon each individual.

Hubby and I kind of had this conversation the other day. I noticed the longer the foreplay most times results in longer sex, sometimes he just enjoys getting me to orgasm over and over, but then an hour or two later it seems difficult for him to 'finish' because he has spent so much focus on me. Don't get me wrong, I definitely reciprocate during but he thoroughly enjoys taking care of me, but yes, I do feel bad when he's left behind, but he never seems to mind because he states he has many mini orgasms and it all feels good.

[Awoman2]

When I saw this topic, all I could think was, it sounds like women are robots, or gadgets. Weird.

I think if a man doesn't know how much foreplay his woman needs, i.e. if he can't sense when she's ready to move to the next step, he's in very serious trouble.