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  • Butterflylily
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    • Aug 2010
    • 61

    Hes a great guy, he doesnt have a problem with doing ANYTHING to pleasure me, hes soooooo concerned about my pleasure but its to much..so far we've been trying things, he touches me, gives me oral but thats it.

    he says... "Vibrators give you most pleasure, why dont you wanna use them?"

    And when i touch him he says "No silly, your not enjoying that" Instead he focuses everything on me all the time, It sounds silly that im complaining about this, its a good thing the way he treats but...after a while i feel selfish i mean..imagine if you can never touch him or pleasure him or anything...Ive seen him naked but I was peaking at him when he was showering XD hehe :O anyway, thats the only ive seen him naked .


    I try to tell him I want him but he just...wont believe me, it seems his past girlfriend made a beating on him, all his past girls are the type of women that are "Toy Fanatics" if you know what i mean, like being addicted to them and using them everywhere, everytime, with whoever.

    Its tough, ive told him for us to get counseling but he says hes fine and hes just Happy with me. The thing is..I can masturbate and orgasm easily without Vibrators, but despite that Idk whats wrong with him....

    He made a joke yesterday that i didnt find funny at all, he said "Im transplanting batteries into my penis so it vibrates" and he laughed, but i didnt find it funny at all, I found it stupid >/.

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    • WildChild
      Banned
      • Sep 2008
      • 14142

      It really does sound like he is deeply insecure about his body and performance and this is a way to avoid facing it.

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