Lube does not relax my muscles to allow penetration, arousal does, which is not as easy to become when I am a groggy and tired lol
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I love sex in the morning, but unfortunately, my man don't wake up until it is too late to do it. I sometimes wake up aroused and ready but he is still sleeping. I keep looking at the clock, trying to decide if I should wake him up. If it is a work day, I usually don't. Then I end up taking a cold shower and feeling frustrated and grouchy all day.sigpic
Not thinking about anything is Zen. Once you know this, walking, sitting, or lying down, everything you do is Zen.
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Ever try waking him up? You might be pleasantly surprised... HE certainly would be!I love sex in the morning, but unfortunately, my man don't wake up until it is too late to do it. I sometimes wake up aroused and ready but he is still sleeping. I keep looking at the clock, trying to decide if I should wake him up. If it is a work day, I usually don't. Then I end up taking a cold shower and feeling frustrated and grouchy all day.
I'm fortunate to have a friend who is a HUGE fan of morning sex, and on those rare occasions when we can spend a night together, she'll take matters into her own hands if necessary to awaken me in the morning...
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To me, the good thing about morning sex is that your brain is still pretty disconnected. So I don't have intrusive thoughts and it's much easier to get aroused. I just bury my face in his neck so morning breath isn't a problem. It's a very warm and intimate thing. Have you ever tried having sex after just a nap? Same ups but no morning breath
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