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  • WannaBee
    Member
    • Aug 2010
    • 51

    Insights

    I open a thread to talk about insights into sex, especially in stable relationships. You know, the stuff that takes you ages to figure out. But once you do, certain aspects become a lot clearer.

    1) Women do not want to have sex with our penises.
    Jup, that's right, our; what we insist to be; best part is not what SHE desirers. She wants to have sex with US. This thingy dangling between our legs is only a mean to achieve this great feeling of togetherness.
    Normally she does enjoy doing certain things with and to our MIGHT, however her primary attention is on us.

    At first, that's tough to take, given all the conditioning we have suffered through. But once one understands it, it's a compliment of epic proportions.

    2) Guys want to see her Naked, every single second of the day and(!) the night.
    There's no absolutely no point being unsure about yourself ladies. He wants you naked. PERIOD.
    Do not even think about certain parts of your body and how they might look like (under certain conditions or angles). We love you the way you are.

    You know, we care much more about you, than about some digitally altered picture in a ""lifestyle"" magzine.

    3) However good you think you are in bed, sometimes the time you spent afterwards together is more important to her than foreplay and the act combined. So if you want to be there a happy next time, put some effort into post game cuddling.
  • lizzardb63
    Veteran Member
    • Aug 2010
    • 1493

    I enjoyed reading this. Thank you!

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    • Allie602
      Veteran Member
      • Jul 2010
      • 324

      Will you marry me.

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      • WildChild
        Banned
        • Sep 2008
        • 14142

        Very excellent insights. You got it!

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        • Hopeless Dork
          Veteran Member
          • Dec 2008
          • 4255

          I agree with the 3rd one, the aftersex can make an average time amazing... or an awesome time, regrettable. Yeah we know you guys are tired after sex sometimes and it does some sort of chemical release and you don't get as jibbery jabbery as we can get sometimes, but it takes so little effort to hold us in your arms and give a tight squeeze, to lay a kiss on our foreheads and tell us we're beautiful , sexy, how much you love us... those simple little acts take the experience to a whole other level.
          Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.

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          • WannaBee
            Member
            • Aug 2010
            • 51

            Glad to hear, that my so called "insights" are not complete nonsense.

            I was hoping you guys would be sharing morsels of wisdom as well. So that I, and all the other readers, don't have to do all the figuiring out ourselves. It's not that I am too lazy to do some thinking myself, the point is that if I can learn from you, then I know stuff sooner, and can hence spoil us even more

            Furhter input is greatly appreciated.

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            • CHANDLERS WISH
              • Mar 2008
              • 22440

              So you feel that a woman is human, she is desirable, a being, beautiful...

              It's not about sex, it's about intimacy.

              It's not about feeling in-secure but beautiful in her body and that in the eyes of her man that she can be naked and seen naked and feel beautiful...

              And, it's about being desired, but loved, held, cuddled...

              And that the man's parts whilst she tries to give, is not a rod, to prod but a love machine, to give, un-conditionally in love and where souls meet together...

              She bonds, she feels sexy, she is not afraid to be naked, she doesn't see your rod as sex rather intimacy and loving and you see her as a naked woman whom you love and whom doesn't see your parts as just a tool, and you see her as a soul to give to..and that's special....

              There is nothing to learn, you have it down pact.

              CW
              PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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              • Guest

                Finally a man who understands...

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                • Rediscovered
                  Senior Member
                  • Feb 2010
                  • 118

                  WannaBee, you are awesome.

                  What's interesting is how the things you cite are interconnected...when a woman feels adored, loved, and worshipped by her man, only then will the sex turn into something you can't even put into words. It makes regular sex feel like two people pounding their bodies against each other instead of melding into one beautiful warm state of ecstasy.

                  My hope is for everyone to have that experience at least once in their lifetime...the world would be a lot less grumpy, lol.

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                  • ManINeedACoffee
                    Senior Member
                    • Sep 2010
                    • 161

                    D'awwww, so true. Especially #3. I don't expect to have a full-fledged conversation after sex, or even to stay awake for very long (I'm usually pretty spent myself!). But it means so much to me that my boyfriend pulls me over to him afterward and simply says, "My beautiful baby." He's big on spooning, too.

                    Or even getting a little "giddy" afterward (which we also tend to do sometimes), and just lying there giggling and goofing around for a little while. I'm very fortunate - when you and your partner want each other - not just the act - there really is nothing quite like it.

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