[ilovhr]

I have seen that my wife wants it now, whether, see starts giving BJ or receiving it down there. Is it the case with you as well or she needs to follow some practices? She can sustain a while while giving but needs it immediately with a minute while receiving, has high urge to start intercourse very quickly and finishes very quickly as well.

[WildChild]

Not sure I understand clearly what you are asking. Are you saying that giving a bj arouses her so much that she wants immediate intercourse?

[Guest]

I'm a bit confused as well WC, but assuming you're correct with your train of thought....

The woman I love enjoys my cunnilingus A LOT but she can't take it for very long (I'm very good at it) before she is literally pulling me up by my ears and telling me to enter her.

So, ilovher, if you're asking if there is anything your wife can do to slow her reaction to your activity, i would say no, there is not.

Ladies, if there is something that can be done, please let us know, as I would love to be able to continue cunnilingus for long periods of time without taking a break in order to avoid orgasm.

[Guest]

i can only take cunnilingus for so long, i get to sensitive before it starts to hurt, i do orgasm from it and love it, but only so much..

[ItsASecret]

Oral on me is no big rush, no ear pulling to stop the sensations, he could go for an hour and I would get wet but arousal wise I would be the same as when he started...though I do wish it did something more for me because I would love to have a quick orgasm. But foreplay itself does not automatically, as in within a minute or two, get me wanting sex. It takes a bit longer than that, and the way my bf does it is by touching me all over. The massages the kisses or licks on my body and then the make out time. If he does that I will start to play with his hard on while we are still kissing and he will finger me. After I am 'loosened' down below from his fingers then I am ready for sex and willing to just roll on top push him down and get down to business. Other than the touching way I do not get an uncontrollable sense of urgency for sex.

[ilovhr]

WC, you got it right.

[ManINeedACoffee]

I don't know...my best friend told me she tried to put off an orgasm by repeating her grocery list in her head to distract herself once. It didn't work. She just wound up inadvertently shouting, "STICKY NOTES!" in the throes of passion instead.

No, I am not kidding.

When something feels good enough, it's pretty tough to slow yourself down, you know?