[hizenberg]

i would realy like a little male oppinion on this but would also take any female advise too!!
So what im after is well,Whats some of the best things to do to get my man lusting madly after me and wanting to drag me into the bedroom and ravage me??? lol
Do you think wearing nothing but heels and a "come here boy" attitude is the best way or act all inncent?? lol
i think first option proberley will get the reaction im after hey! lol But realy whats some of the best things a woman can do to make a man loose control, ive been nasty and nice both seem ok but i want a mans perspective the most,to get a the 'picture' right lol
All replys welcome, im not a prude and open minded so plz dont think you might offend, i will try my best to reply to everyones post.

[rcoreyus]

Different people like different things. Have you let him know that you want to be "dragged into the bedroom and ravaged"? He might not want to do it out of worry of offending you - so you need to tell him. Wanting him to "lose control" is great - but you need to be sure that he understands that is what you want. Also need to be sure you both agree on what sort of things you want him to do.

Once that is worked out - depends on what he likes - different men like completely different things. (they are people - just like women ).

[kristalyn_04]

Ooo be all seductive, dress sexy (or just be naked or close to naked) then go up to him, press up against him and whisper in his ear exactly what you want him to do to you. No guy I've known would be able to refuse THAT.

[Guest]

here is what you do

First off, don't have sex with him for about 5 days. During those days, tell him what you plan to do to him on the last day. Each day, remind him of what you want... Make up a scenario you want to play out and discuss it with him during those 5 days. Build up the tension but hold off for all those days. When sex day does come, he will be primed.

[snapshot]

We, Men are pretty simple

Tell him exactly what you want to do to him, or want him to do to you over the phone, text or e-mail. Tell him you will be waiting for him when he gets home. By the time he gets home, you will most lkely have your desired reaction. The poor guy wont getting any work done the rest of the day as he starts thinking about the fun he is going to have when he gets home.

[Guest]

Remember, the key to your success will ultimately be based on how close you put the dots to make a line. We men need the dots pretty close together in order to see the line you are drawing. Don't assume we know, cause we don't.

Phil had it right above (at least in part) about building up tension...I say anticipation! Foreplay starts in the morning and ends with an act of intimacy at a later time.
So as he kisses you goodbye and leaves for work, draw him back to you and extend the kiss a bit longer or pinch his butt, crotch, etc. Whisper something in his ear, leave him a note on the sterring wheel of his car, etc. One of these things should suffice, as you don't want to go over board.

Be careful what you send in an e-mail as many employers are really cracking down on "fun" e-mail that is not work related.

An idea that works on me every time and frequently catches me off guard....still is: My SO and I will go out for dinner, soon after we arrive and are seated, she'll excuse herself to use the ladies room. When she comes back to the table, she'll lean in real close and whisper in my ear that she has a little something for me....then she'll discreetly hand me her panties! Makes me want to take her right there..... Check Please! Not only that, but she will order an appetizer, we'll have a drink or two, then dinner, once in a while we'll split a desert....all in an effort by her to prolong my anticipation/tension of wanting her....now.

What ever you do, have fun trying it. Don't get too crazy and elaborate, instead, just go for it. If it doesn't get the results you are looking for, try something different next time.

[jns]

Ooo be all seductive, dress sexy (or just be naked or close to naked) then go up to him, press up against him and whisper in his ear exactly what you want him to do to you. No guy I've known would be able to refuse THAT.

I would say this is a good start, but be in that sexy, seductive dress without underwear. When you do the whispering, guide his hand under the dress to your privates. At the same time, use the other hand to rub him through his clothes. He should be ready to go, I know I would be.

[Guest]

Put on a short plaid skirt with white cotton panties on underneath, simple white blouse and knee socks, maybe put your hair in pigtails, stand in front of him with a sweet smile on your face, slowly pull your skirt up in front and flash him and giggle, that does the trick every time..

[stressed]

It depends on the man and it depends on why you are asking. If he's generally easy to arouse then any of the suggested ideas above can work. If you are asking because he's hard to 'lose control' and he doesn't drag you to bed as much as you'd like him to, then you may have to be careful with your approach so you won't get disappointed. If he's reserved, or isn't sure what you want, or isn't sure if he can do what you want him to do, he may not go for it and you'll be left there freezing with just heels on and a very bad temper.

Find out what he likes and then do it. We can only give ideas as to what we'd like to do or what we'd like to have done to us, but he may like something totally different.

[ilovhr]

Here is what makes me mad:

1. When I am away for 1-2 weeks from my wife
2. I keep on fantasizing allot and making plan to get back soon and be on rampage
3.When I come home, generally it is late evening after 10PM
4. As soon as I reach home I expect her to be in HOT RED bra and panty only
5. While I am away we talk allot and discuss our experiences of best sessions we had had

Can't mention how that night goes when we meet after a gap.