But fantasy costumes , roleplay all that stuff is good stuff to spice things up -- you know him best -- if he hasn't hinted at what he'd like to see you in , talk to him about it and suprise him someday. You probably know which body parts he loves the most of yours... play those up. If you are assertive all the time, try being coy and demure, if you are shy and don't inniciate... break out your vixen. Its always best to keep them on their toes... where they have no idea what to expect when they get home.
-
Some guys are into the whole little girl thing.. the giggles etc.. some just think plaid skirts and knee socks are hot because of the skin they expose... so its good to know your audience with that one.
But fantasy costumes , roleplay all that stuff is good stuff to spice things up -- you know him best -- if he hasn't hinted at what he'd like to see you in , talk to him about it and suprise him someday. You probably know which body parts he loves the most of yours... play those up. If you are assertive all the time, try being coy and demure, if you are shy and don't inniciate... break out your vixen. Its always best to keep them on their toes... where they have no idea what to expect when they get home.Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going. -
Wow i cant believe how quick ppl replyed ... lol womens health has some kinkymembers!!my guy has always been respectful and decent to me,a few times he has 'got outta control' but i want to fugure out how to get him going buck wild for me, lol other views is great to see in anothers eyes how things 'turn on ' to them.
HD good idea me thinks with playn up what he likes most about my bod so i think red tarten tight mini with black heels should do the trick as he dont like the whole 'teen girl' thing but a twist of it in the bedroom certainly wont hurt thats for sure lol.
ILVOHR i will def have to make sure there is a lead up to this rendevo,sounds like it will make him ''limp' if i dont give up the cookies,lol.
STRESSED your right about that piont,as i dont want him to think i have some fetish with a man over powering me,i just want tto make him want to ravage me on the spot {providing there is no crowd to watch,how imbarrising{kinda} lol}.
SIDNEYALIVE i know for a fact that hes not into that,as i brought up a porn vid on the net with fake 'teens'in it and he went quiet and all went '''little'''' lol,he told me if we were gonna get dirty that he found it offensive as his step sister was a teen and i guess thats was the reason why??i thought it was convincing,whether or not it was i dont care i just want to bring out his 'fun sex crazed demon side' lol but great idea though,was even thinking of doing the whole 'role play thing as a shy teen' lol
JNS i could be 'Mrs Bond for the night and be on a mission of,there is spys watching us so i have to be suttle.." i get what your saying and that makes perfect sense ,because i did nt want to jump on him outta no where n be some sex crazed lunitic {well i didnt want him to get the impression!!!} lol lol good tip,shy n suttle.
SEEKER ADVISE so pretty much what JNS was saying,... suttle but with DETAIL....
OK OK SO IM GETTING A BIG PICTURE HERE..............where was i..ok ill stop thinking bout that for a minute,too distracting, lol,
SNAPSHOT same thing as seeker and sidney were sayn....so far i figured men kinda like a bit of direction on where things are heading but at the same time,dragging it out and makingthem hold off is a GOOOOD thing... lol lol i kinda thought that ,but waiting for me and i could prob say for most women.......is soooo hard to do!!Esp when you guys smell and look so good and doing all the right things in the moment it makes it almost,yes almost impossible to hole back and saviour the 'taste'.
PHIL hes not going to like that idea ,but so far i like the sound of it also,let the pressure build,he cant stand 2 days let alone almost a week, i just hope when it comes time for the 'party' he can last long enough,usualley he cant very long after 3 days,so far 5 days is the longest time we ever have to wait and hes a wreck lol.thanks anyways,im gonna experiment with that one ....muah ahh ahh arrrrgghhhhhhhhh lol
KRISTALYN04 like i said ive done the whole nothin but heels and he doesnt last long with that one either...lol and he is almost 34,i must be one the right road right if he ;cant hole on' ...??am i right lol i will bring out my inner sex kitten ,i will get down on my knees and crawl to himn like a cat ....uhh i just wont purr coz thats kinda ..um freaky !! loli do plenty dirty talk while we doing the deed but i want a 'boom boom fireworks senario where he cant keep his hands off me,oh i gotta take you on the spot give ME, give ME,give me NOWWW!!LMAO
RCOREYUS true,so true.i just may have to call him up while hes on his at work tonight, 'night shift and no interuptions' and get excactley what his likes ,hates ,turn on's and major turnoffs,the whole who harr. lol it can start the lead up of no sex for the next 6 days ive decided....................lol
thanks guys and i wont keep you posted on the raunchy details on day six but ill let you know how many stars i got.....................lol
????
OWH OWH i just thought up a great idea,ANY IDEAS ON HOW TO START DAY ONE.....????? LOL want to help me make a SEX DIET PLAN?????
THEN DAY TWO.............THEN DAY THREEE............ ETC............. ETC.............TILL BLAST OFFF........(lol serious no punt intended)Comment
-
Sorry to "chime in" late, but I think the best "defense" is a strong "offense. You want raw lust from him? Display it! Be waiting and when he comes in the door- jump him ..right then..right there. Wait a couple of days...scout some locations and time that can be "safe" and surprise him again- aggressively! Smile..then walk away. I believe he will be "anticipating the next "attack" and very quickly start planning his own. Many good suggestions but clothing is a big issue. Things like 'tight jeans- look great- but can be a "wrestling match" to get on and off....think quick easy access...and if something rips or tears...no big deal. Good luck and GO GET HIM!....(lucky man). lolComment
-
Or better yet, do all the above except without the white cotton panties...Put on a short plaid skirt with white cotton panties on underneath, simple white blouse and knee socks, maybe put your hair in pigtails, stand in front of him with a sweet smile on your face, slowly pull your skirt up in front and flash him and giggle, that does the trick every time..Comment
-
Guest
My ultimate fantasy is to "meet" my wife at a hotel, in the bar. I want her to pretend to not know me. She's married and away for a convention. She needs to be dressed in a black skirt, stockings and garters. I want to have to seduce her, ply her with drinks. Then I want to take her up to my room. I want her to show some reluctance, maybe saying things like "I can't" and " we should'nt, I'm married" I find this hot!!!!!Comment
-
That sounds very doable.My ultimate fantasy is to "meet" my wife at a hotel, in the bar. I want her to pretend to not know me. She's married and away for a convention. She needs to be dressed in a black skirt, stockings and garters. I want to have to seduce her, ply her with drinks. Then I want to take her up to my room. I want her to show some reluctance, maybe saying things like "I can't" and " we should'nt, I'm married" I find this hot!!!!!
Have you asked her to?Comment
-
Men like a change - If you are not shaved, get yourself smooth without saying anything to him. Be wearing a skirt, short but not too short, no panties obviously. Then, at a good moment, tell him you have something to show him, and slowly raise your skirt inch by inch. You probably won't reach the bedroom, and he will most likely lead with his tongue!
Enjoy it, whatever you do!Comment
-
This is the kind of question I wish my wife was asking! I will tell you what I love! Spontaneity- take me by surprise. Try something new and in a different setting. Naughty talk with sexual innuendo gets me hard quickly too! Be adventurous - find out what his fantasies are. I would love to try anal for instance and inserr a vibrator simultaneously, for instance. Most importantly, be turned on yourself. If you are dripping wet and and quivering with pent-up sexual desire he will respond by wanting to rip you clothes off ravish you on the spot. Tease him a bit and draw it out till he cracks! Lol!Comment
Get The Newsletter
Latest Activity
-
A balanced middle ground seems healthiest here. You can set a clear boundary without turning every disagreement into a fight. Calmly explaining how her...
08-15-2026, 07:35 AM By chrishillus -
Well, funny enough, I've talked to a few people about this, and we've all had a laugh that on social media and in certain circles, women are coming clean...
08-12-2026, 09:35 PM By JonnyR -
Reply to PCOS and unwanted hair growth
I had NO idea! But honestly, the new name makes so much more sense. I’ve always associated PCOS primarily with the reproductive side of things, so it’s...
08-11-2026, 12:12 PM By Birdie_567 -
Reply to PCOS and unwanted hair growth
BTW -- did you see that the renamed PCOS to PMOS?
Per online:
"Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS) has been officially renamed...08-06-2026, 08:04 PM By JonnyR -
To me, there's a big difference between prioritizing your kids' needs and making your kids your entire emotional world. I've definitely seen situations...
08-03-2026, 01:59 PM By Birdie_567
Latest Topics
-
Does anyone have any experience with PCOS and getting rid of unwanted facial hair? What started as one singular strand on my chin in my 20s has turned...
07-27-2026, 07:25 AM By Birdie_567
Comment