[kristalyn_04]

Oh, I get Tex's humor and all. Hilarious! It's like telling a harelip joke to a guy with a
cleft palate and wondering why he's not cracking up. Like being lectured to on the horror of guns and the lecturer says, "and if you don't listen to me I'm going to have to shoot you."

Well apparently you don't, because I am more than certain that Tex is not trying to make fun of anyone or make them feel bad at all. You are interpreting it that way but that is not his intent, although I'm sure he can speak for himself. He was simply making a point while throwing in a bit of humor as he frequently does, I saw absolutely nothing in his statement that suggested he was taking a crack at those with size insecurities. But, whatever, I'm so done trying to convince you of anything because it seems to have done as much good as talking to a brick wall. I really hope someday you snap out of it and realize we were right. Good luck to you.

[WildChild]

I've said it before, what'll you bet I'll end up saying it again?

SIZE IS ONLY AN ISSUE IN THE ABSENCE OF QUALITY.

Learn how to make love instead of just shoving it in.
Learn to make her arousal (the journey) more important than your ejaculation.
This will actually require some time, learning, communication and personal growth - you can't be focusing on that if you are spending your energy worry about how you compare to, as Secret put it so neatly, Mr Pringle's can.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Oh, I get Tex's humor and all. Hilarious! It's like telling a harelip joke to a guy with a
cleft palate and wondering why he's not cracking up. Like being lectured to on the horror of guns and the lecturer says, "and if you don't listen to me I'm going to have to shoot you."

It's not the humor you need to get...Tex started this thread for a reason and that reason was to try to get people to go deeper into their minds, their sub-conscious to realise we all have things we don't like about ourselves, but then on the same accord, we ALL can do something about it.

Your anology is like any fear...If you have a fear of airoplanes to over come that you have to fly.....

If you have a fear of being too small? Then do something about it, and work out how to use it and every part of your being including love to make it awesome.

Nothing, nothing, is negative in life there is an answer always.

I suggest more so at this point your comments are one of "Anger" if you do not agree size doesn't matter, perhaps visit other threads as this thread speaks volumes over and over, pages and pages, of people whom disagree...

CW

[Texinator]

Yeah, I was making fun, not of "small" penises, but of size insecurities. I was saying that of all the people worrying, men had even less of a reason to worry - though nobody really has a legitimate reason - because their stuff isn't on constant display like breasts are. Otherwise the ones that have a small penis would never leave the house, not because they'd be facing overwhelming rejection, but because they'd be so convinced that all the women would laugh at them. It wasn't mean spirited. I was trying to show how out of touch with reality those insecurities are, in the hopes of providing whatever little kick possible to get people to do something about their fears.

Others and I have written countless posts in this and other threads, trying to offer a logical explanation on why it doesn't matter and why the few men that do care about breast size and women that do care about penis size are shallow. But - and I'm just throwing this out there in general - it sometimes feels like people come here to actually reinforce their insecurities, not combat them. It's like sometimes happens in the Relationship section, where someone will complain about a partner and then admit to being too afraid to leave, and then when we tell them that, yes, they should leave, all of the sudden they try to explain why that partner isn't so bad after all.

[WildChild]

People are often very attached to their problems and insecurities. Oddly it seems that there is a kind of security in being insecure.
Sounds strange but if becomes a justification for failures, for not having the life or love they want, for not getting out there and doing what it takes to make positive things happen. How does the line in the song go? "We never failed to fail, it was the easiest thing to do".

[Texinator]

Ooh, creative spam for once.

[kimmi211]

what i've learnt is that all men love large breats and all women love a larger penis. Thats just human, when something is larger than that thing is better at/ for the job or what ever. but today noone cares how big something is. we may like bigger but doesnt mean we want it bigger. like my boyfriend is about 4.5-5" inch i dont care. it does the job that we want it to do and he always tells me that he love my boobs, i think they are to big but he dont care.
so whats the point of comparing?

[jns]

what i've learnt is that all men love large breats and all women love a larger penis. Thats just human, when something is larger than that thing is better at/ for the job or what ever. but today noone cares how big something is. we may like bigger but doesnt mean we want it bigger. like my boyfriend is about 4.5-5" inch i dont care. it does the job that we want it to do and he always tells me that he love my boobs, i think they are to big but he dont care.
so whats the point of comparing?

I am a guy and larger breasts have no special attraction to me. In fact, I have mostly been with small breast women and my relationships have been with small and medium breast women.

[jns]

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[kristalyn_04]

what i've learnt is that all men love large breats and all women love a larger penis. Thats just human, when something is larger than that thing is better at/ for the job or what ever. but today noone cares how big something is. we may like bigger but doesnt mean we want it bigger. like my boyfriend is about 4.5-5" inch i dont care. it does the job that we want it to do and he always tells me that he love my boobs, i think they are to big but he dont care.
so whats the point of comparing?

Nope, not all women like big penises. I don't. Big penis = smacked in the cervix = very uncomfortable.