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No, no I said CLIT-ical Thinking. Here's the thread:
I said that with a little humor, but in all seriousness, he needs to learn to pleasure you as well.
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Try massaging the area just above the urethral opening and below the clit. That is your U spot. Doesn't work for everyone but if it does it can be very rewarding.Comment
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Sigh. I understand your frustration. My last husband had no interest in sex and my kid's father before that was a 2 second wonder (he didn't start that way- it was a choice) who cared only for his own pleasure. I'm down to taking care of myself now by choice. Giving several bjs a week and getting intercourse without any attention, affection or foreplay once or twice a month just kept me wanting what I wasn't getting, so I ended my last relationship. Of course I still want what I'm not getting but at least now I don't have the frustration of the scent of his skin, his taste, touching him and wanting him so much and not getting anything from him.
Personally I find masterbation rather lame. It's better than nothing but not by much. It's like eating some bland semi nutritional cracker instead of a real meal. It keeps you from starving but who cares? I don't know what to suggest. I'm not a fan of vibrators although I have one. Not much of a fan of other toys either but I haven't tried many. There are some books on the subject. I haven't delved into them but may in the near future. Sex For One is one that looks interesting. Want to check it out and give us a review on the Books on Sex thread?Comment
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Maybe y'all need to print out the following post and start handing it out to men:
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lol when no one is home sun-tan nude in the backyard and start fingering yourself..
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