[Theresa]

Even so, I agree with Tex. You deserve to be pleasured just as much as he does, it's only fair. Hmm... I think he could use some "Clitical Thinking".

Not sure what "Critical Thinking" is but I am guessing it wouldn't hurt!!! Thanks!!

[kristalyn_04]

No, no I said CLIT-ical Thinking. Here's the thread:

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/lounge/29454-presenting-texs-clitical-thinking.html

I said that with a little humor, but in all seriousness, he needs to learn to pleasure you as well.

[LadySue]

Try massaging the area just above the urethral opening and below the clit. That is your U spot. Doesn't work for everyone but if it does it can be very rewarding.

[WildChild]

Sigh. I understand your frustration. My last husband had no interest in sex and my kid's father before that was a 2 second wonder (he didn't start that way- it was a choice) who cared only for his own pleasure. I'm down to taking care of myself now by choice. Giving several bjs a week and getting intercourse without any attention, affection or foreplay once or twice a month just kept me wanting what I wasn't getting, so I ended my last relationship. Of course I still want what I'm not getting but at least now I don't have the frustration of the scent of his skin, his taste, touching him and wanting him so much and not getting anything from him.

Personally I find masterbation rather lame. It's better than nothing but not by much. It's like eating some bland semi nutritional cracker instead of a real meal. It keeps you from starving but who cares? I don't know what to suggest. I'm not a fan of vibrators although I have one. Not much of a fan of other toys either but I haven't tried many. There are some books on the subject. I haven't delved into them but may in the near future. Sex For One is one that looks interesting. Want to check it out and give us a review on the Books on Sex thread?

[Texinator]

Maybe y'all need to print out the following post and start handing it out to men:

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/lounge/29454-presenting-texs-clitical-thinking-31.html#post238264

[capella050505]

lol when no one is home sun-tan nude in the backyard and start fingering yourself..

[nic22]

lol when no one is home sun-tan nude in the backyard and start fingering yourself..

WOW, wish you were my neighbour ! LOL