[Venera]

I was just curious if it's okay, if a guy's legs get numb after oral sex?
I gave my boyfriend oral sex, and for more than couple of times his legs just got numb when he started ejaculating. And his ejaculation also did not stop quickly, but it felt like it would never end. He says that he likes it because it feels different than the average feelings after oral sex (I don't know what they feel after they orgasm), but anyways I just don't understand why does it sometimes happen? I mean, why when I give him oral sex this numbness happens and sometimes not? and is there any negative effects, or something?
And another question, correct me if I'm wrong. When guys ejaculate, this means that they had an orgasm right? but somehow my boyfriend argued that he doesn't consider it orgasm, but considers the one when his legs get numb because he really feels euphoric.

Thanks for any useful information.

[rcoreyus]

I've never heard of this numbness before. Is it possible he is tensing his legs and cutfing off his circulation, or that they are in some uncomfortable position and he doesn't notice because of what you are doing?

Maybe try in a different position and see what happens?

I've heard that ejaculation and orgasm are separate things for some men, but I thought it was rare, and the sort of thing men can train themselves to to through tantric meditation of some such.

[Venera]

I don't know if being seated is considered uncomfortable position for this, but that's his usual position and he even looks relaxed.

I never knew that ejaculation and orgasm are separate things for men, this is something new for me... .

[rcoreyus]

I should emphasize that for almost all men ,ejaculation and orgasm are the same, just different for a very few. Is he sitting on something hard that could cut off the circulation in his legs? It might of course have nothing to do with circulation - just trying a wild guess.

[Guest]

orgasm and ejaculation are NOT the same thing, per se...but they occur together naturally in all men. some men can squeeze their PC muscles such that they will experience the muscular spasm of an orgasm (thats whan an orgasm is) but not emit nor ejaculate any semen. but thats something that comes with training or great effort and so yes, naturally speaking, they are the same thing.

[Venera]

Thanks a lot for the responses.

[Texasred]

I never knew that ejaculation and orgasm are separate things for men, this is something new for me... .

They may be "separate," but for one to occur without the other is extremely rare. In fact, without either a great deal of training, or a very unusual medical problem, it's almost impossible for one to occur without the other.