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  • sofi-chan
    Member
    • Jan 2011
    • 36

    Well i have been REALLY wet (felt like i pee) and felt excited and almost shaking.. is that an orgasm?

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    • sofi-chan
      Member
      • Jan 2011
      • 36

      I let my bf touch, grab and squeeze my boobs (with bra on) thats ok right? Its not bad to future health?

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      • kristalyn_04
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2009
        • 2164

        Originally posted by sofi-chan
        Well i have been REALLY wet (felt like i pee) and felt excited and almost shaking.. is that an orgasm?
        Did you feel any vaginal muscle contractions? Was it a pleasurable sensation? Did you feel sexually satisfied afterwards? Like I said, the way each woman experiences an orgasm is different, but the major factors in determining if it was an orgasm is if you experienced pleasure from it and if it left you feeling sexually satisfied. So, I can't answer if what you experienced was an orgasm or not, but you should be able to figure it out from what I explained. If not, try again and focus on your clitoris.

        Originally posted by sofi-chan
        I let my bf touch, grab and squeeze my boobs (with bra on) thats ok right? Its not bad to future health?
        There's nothing wrong with him playing with your boobs, and no there are no health risks as long as he is not squeezing too hard and it's not painful. He can even lick and play with your nipples if you enjoy that.

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        • sofi-chan
          Member
          • Jan 2011
          • 36

          Thaxs... i have heard of people that use chocolate, caramel or other sweet things when having oral... isnt it bad for genitals?/

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          • jns
            Assistant Admin
            • Mar 2010
            • 8398

            Originally posted by sofi-chan
            Thaxs... i have heard of people that use chocolate, caramel or other sweet things when having oral... isnt it bad for genitals?/
            There is no need for such things. Each woman has her own specific taste and scent. It is precisely that taste and scent that drives guys who like doing oral on women, wild. Anything else would be gilding the lily and potentially ruin the experience.
            I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
            ...
            Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

            From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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            • kristalyn_04
              Veteran Member
              • Oct 2009
              • 2164

              Originally posted by sofi-chan
              Thaxs... i have heard of people that use chocolate, caramel or other sweet things when having oral... isnt it bad for genitals?/
              Nope it's not bad. A general rule of thumb is, don't put anything near your genitals that you wouldn't put in your mouth, or anything that is not specifically made for your genitals. So, most foods are ok although salty or spicy things might sting, and don't put anything in your vagina that has rough edges because the soft membrane can tear easily. Also you should avoid putting anything inside your vagina that is salty or sugary, because it can mess with your natural pH balance and cause an infection.

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              • sofi-chan
                Member
                • Jan 2011
                • 36

                Really really thanx u guy r very nice and make me feel confortable at asking sexual things... i really apreciate that! Ill post here other questions when i need it so...

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                • sofi-chan
                  Member
                  • Jan 2011
                  • 36

                  Guys* its for both

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                  • XChiquitaX
                    Junior Member
                    • Jan 2011
                    • 9

                    Originally posted by sofi-chan
                    Thanx to both u guys!! Jaja and dont worrie am not having sex just to have it, i have a boyfriend like 3 years ago so i am planing to have sex with him (ofcourse when i am ready for it)... i just wanted to have information to make it right...
                    Good on you for getting yourself educated first, a lot of people are scared to ask questions and then panic when the time comes so I'm glad you feel confident enough to prepare yourself. In terms of his age, it doesn't mean he will be huge down there, all guys are different and there's no guaranteeing what size he will be.
                    Originally posted by sofi-chan
                    And sorry about my writing, i am from costa rica, we speak spanish so i am not perfect at english jejeje... :$
                    You're doing great at it! What part of CR, when I was little (4 or 5) we lived in San José

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                    • sofi-chan
                      Member
                      • Jan 2011
                      • 36

                      Jeje well thanx.. i am from quepos... it is on puntarenas... i also spend some time in san jose where my grandparents live.. jeje

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