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  • philla
    Member
    • Jan 2011
    • 19

    OK I am a guy but I just wondered if anybody could help me

    Who would be willing to talk to me on yahoo messenger?I'd prefer you(probably not many girls on here that arent) be over 18 cause its kinda about my sexuality but if any girl could help me out(no webcams or anything just IM) im very confused(im 17), Thank you, I came here cause i feel like girls no best about this and I can't talk to any girl I know personally. If you'd be willing to talk to me email me at (removed e-mail address)
    Last edited by LanaBear; 01-20-2011, 09:40 PM. Reason: Removed personal e-mail address.
  • hppacific
    Member
    • Nov 2010
    • 68

    out of curiousity what exactly are you trying to accomplish? not tryin to sound rude i just dont understand

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    • philla
      Member
      • Jan 2011
      • 19

      i just have some questions about my sexuality that are kinda complex i guess. Im just looking for a girl to brainstorm with ive analyzed my own sexuality so much i kinda have tunnel vision lol

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      • kristalyn_04
        Veteran Member
        • Oct 2009
        • 2164

        This is an anonymous site so if you need help I would suggest posting your issue here and let us help you. You being a young guy and asking to privately IM with a female, understand that could be interpreted as trying to solicit something (and honestly a little creepy). We don't judge here and there are many helpful people, so just post your issue here and we will do our best to help you out.

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        • LanaBear
          Veteran Member
          • Jul 2009
          • 8373

          We encourage you to post here, on this forum.

          It is anonymous and you will get plenty of assistance from many people here.

          Your e-mail address has been removed as we discourage our members from posting personal information to protect your privacy.

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          • philla
            Member
            • Jan 2011
            • 19

            Alright just a heads up, its kinda complicated and my situation involves transsexuals lol sorry i just dont want anyone coming in thinking its a black and white issue and being to shocked lol

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            • LanaBear
              Veteran Member
              • Jul 2009
              • 8373

              Trust us... Not too much shocks us here anymore. We are all very open minded, so don't feel as if you will be judged, we don't allow it here. You will be fine.

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              • philla
                Member
                • Jan 2011
                • 19

                Alright, So I've always thought/known i was straight, but lately all i can think/fantasize about is giving a transsexual oral sex...its all i wanna do. I mean im attracted to women, I could look at a hot girl all day, and that is partly why I like transsexuals some are gorgeous, but when it comes down to it every thing i wont to do with a transsexual involves her penis. I am not attracted to men AT ALL and I am attracted to women, but a womans vagina just does absolutely nothing for me, infact I think they look kinda ugly. So what I ask u is do you think Im gay? I mean transsexuals are basically girls right? Anything manly about them turns me off. I know I might get a lot of "it's your choice and what you think that matters" but please i just want your opinion on gay or straight. P.S. I am a virgin.

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                • kristalyn_04
                  Veteran Member
                  • Oct 2009
                  • 2164

                  Philla, have a look around the forum... you will see that many many things have been discussed here, including many forms of sexuality and many different issues, covering pretty much everything across the board. So don't worry about shocking us, we've seen it all.

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                  • kristalyn_04
                    Veteran Member
                    • Oct 2009
                    • 2164

                    Originally posted by philla
                    Alright, So I've always thought/known i was straight, but lately all i can think/fantasize about is giving a transsexual oral sex...its all i wanna do. I mean im attracted to women, I could look at a hot girl all day, and that is partly why I like transsexuals some are gorgeous, but when it comes down to it every thing i wont to do with a transsexual involves her penis. I am not attracted to men AT ALL and I am attracted to women, but a womans vagina just does absolutely nothing for me, infact I think they look kinda ugly. So what I ask u is do you think Im gay? I mean transsexuals are basically girls right? Anything manly about them turns me off. I know I might get a lot of "it's your choice and what you think that matters" but please i just want your opinion on gay or straight. P.S. I am a virgin.
                    No, I don't think you are gay, I think you are confused and/or going through a phase. May I ask, what is it about a woman's genitals that turns you off or is ugly to you?

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