[collegegirl2010]

My fiance actually started tearing up once and said, "I wish I hadn't had sex before I met you. I was just searching for you."

Most people, however, aren't like my fiance. But that's why I'm marrying her. I didn't read the five pages of this thread, and doubt I can offer much more than what my fiance once said to me. If you want a logical argument, there are pros and cons to both sides, as well as societal and possibly religious matters to consider. All I know was that my fiance saying that to me made her a virgin in my eyes, because all that matters to her was me.

Yea, that is really sweet. And I wasn't really asking if I should lose my virginity or when. I know that I want to atleast wait until I find the person I think is right. What I want to know is, why do females I know constantly talk to their friends about their sex life, and when the guy is good in bed, but then they turn around and tell me, "its not worth it"? They are constantly doing it now, but they tell me it isn't worth losing my virginity. that's my question. Why do they do this?

[jns]

Yea, that is really sweet. And I wasn't really asking if I should lose my virginity or when. I know that I want to atleast wait until I find the person I think is right. What I want to know is, why do females I know constantly talk to their friends about their sex life, and when the guy is good in bed, but then they turn around and tell me, "its not worth it"? They are constantly doing it now, but they tell me it isn't worth losing my virginity. that's my question. Why do they do this?

The sex part of it is very good. It is just that they are not at a point to be willing to commit. If they are at a point where they want to commit, they still see too many flaws in their SOs. Basically, they have not found the right guy at the right time. They do understand that the sex would have been even better if they waited for Mr. Right, but they cannot un-ring that bell. Don't worry about missing out too much, even though they say the sex is fantastic. Save yourself for Mr. Right.

[collegegirl2010]

The sex part of it is very good. It is just that they are not at a point to be willing to commit. If they are at a point where they want to commit, they still see too many flaws in their SOs. Basically, they have not found the right guy at the right time. They do understand that the sex would have been even better if they waited for Mr. Right, but they cannot un-ring that bell. Don't worry about missing out too much, even though they say the sex is fantastic. Save yourself for Mr. Right.

Well thanks...that explains a lot.