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  • Jezzy143
    Junior Member
    • Feb 2011
    • 7

    Why am I horny ALL the time...?

    I have been in the mood to just take my boyfriend anytime I get the chance. Trouble is, he's not always into it when I want it...
    Which is probably my answer...

    I'm 27 years old...could I be entering my peak?

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  • WildChild
    Banned
    • Sep 2008
    • 14142

    I don't believe there is a peak. We all go through waves, up and down. Some of us have long high times of horniness with brief times of low interest, others have long high times of low interest with only brief times of interest. Many people are somewhere in between. Assuming you are healthy and your hormones are well balanced, the rest is dependent on where your head is.

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    • Jezzy143
      Junior Member
      • Feb 2011
      • 7

      It get aggravating. Cause I just feel like I crave it all the time, and yet I can't get it when I want. I try masterbating, but it doesn't seem to completely help the issue. I crave the actual sex...not just the orgasm..but the actual sex.
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      • Magnetism
        Veteran Member
        • Jan 2009
        • 1060

        Hi Jezzy,

        I don't know you and your life. This may not apply to you, but I will share what it was like for me (in case you can relate to it).

        For me, I was horny all of the time b/c I was using sex to avoid something else going on in my life. It's kind of like how some people abuse alcohol or food to numb their emotions. My sex drive had calmed down once I addressed what was really going on beneath the surface.

        In any case, maybe you just have a high sex drive. Are your sexual thoughts making it hard for you to concentrate in other areas of your life?
        "Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"

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        • waya
          Veteran Member
          • Oct 2010
          • 206

          Maybe it's him. I've been with someone that just being around him made me horny. It was just plain chemistry.

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          • WildChild
            Banned
            • Sep 2008
            • 14142

            Originally posted by waya
            Maybe it's him. I've been with someone that just being around him made me horny. It was just plain chemistry.
            Yep. Been there. It's great if he is as in to you are you are into him.

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            • Magnetism
              Veteran Member
              • Jan 2009
              • 1060

              Originally posted by waya
              Maybe it's him. I've been with someone that just being around him made me horny. It was just plain chemistry.
              That's always a good feeling to have.
              "Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"

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              • jns
                Assistant Admin
                • Mar 2010
                • 8398

                Originally posted by Jezzy143
                I have been in the mood to just take my boyfriend anytime I get the chance. Trouble is, he's not always into it when I want it...
                Which is probably my answer...

                I'm 27 years old...could I be entering my peak?

                How often do you and your bf do it? Are you two doing it enough to keep your libido somewhat in check? How long have you two been in a relationship? Does your bf want you to initiate, or does he want to initiate? Does he object to you initiating?
                I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                ...
                Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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                • Texasred
                  Veteran Member
                  • Oct 2009
                  • 1216

                  Sometimes you find that the more you have sex, the more you want, and that seems to be perfectly natural.
                  And fun!
                  But it's a shame your bf isn't at the same place you are. I've got no ideas and no clever advice there, I'm afraid.

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                  • WildChild
                    Banned
                    • Sep 2008
                    • 14142

                    Do go for a quality experience but mix it up nothing wrong with a quickie now and then. When you have sex, is it good?
                    I'm with you, give me penetrative sex. All the play and lead up is fun and pleasurable but I want the real thing.

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