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  • trinitysimmons
    Junior Member
    • Mar 2011
    • 6

    Lubricants-it is a must to be properly lubricated hence our anus is not producing fluid for lubricating the hole.
    The key is relax, the more you resist, the more the anal muscles will contract and prevent any object from entering.

    My question is, is he not satisfied with your vagina? why he push for anal sex?

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    • Mr. Inquisitive
      Senior Member
      • May 2010
      • 102

      The fear and hesitancy to try again seems to suggest that, suprise, your not ready to try it again. So explain that too him and tell him to stop bothering you about it.

      When you do try it again, lubrication, lubrication, lubrication. Not to mention take it very slowly.

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      • jackiedee
        Junior Member
        • Mar 2011
        • 4

        I agree tequila, and watching porn. It is very uncomfortable at first. Then , once you are started. Not so bad.

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