[karennicholls]

i prefer to get rid but i think its each to their own!
i think that because of what the media portrays women feel like they have to shave, wax or use a hair removal cream, but its your body and you should have it the way that you feel comfortable

[Tod121]

Hi, at the end of the day it is your body and whatever you're happiest with is THE most important thing. Asking your BF would be usefull so at least you know and it would also be very sexy to discuss. As a bloke, I have an occasional trim to keep things tidy and my wife doesnt touch hers at all (as far as Im aware). I personally hate an over grown thatch and my personal favourite is the French wax, I find this super sexy!

[Texinator]

hey, just a quick question..
my best friend absolutely HATES pubes and says that I should shave completey. I cant tell if my boyfriend is just putting up with mine because he doesn't want to say anything. I mean, I don't have a bush, and i trim down there, but i don't want to completely shave, it would make me feel like a little girl. Do you think you should shave completely? is pubic hair a turn-off?

To each their own. Opinions range from that it is completely natural and you should let it grow wild to that it is completely gross and you should shave it all off. What's important is what YOU think about it. After all, it is your body.

[Jim60]

Smooth for me. But actually I am trying to persuade her to grow it back for a change as shes been smooth for so long, but she's reluctant as now prefers to be smooth. As for me, balls shaved, the rest just kept tidy. I'd like to try taking it all off just to try it, but she's not keen.

[Jimbeau]

i prefer to get rid but i think its each to their own!
i think that because of what the media portrays women feel like they have to shave, wax or use a hair removal cream, but its your body and you should have it the way that you feel comfortable

Although I've noticed in the more popular movies the big name actresses usually sport the natural look in nude scenes, particularly in historical films. Kate Winslet, Maggie Gyllenhall, and Anne Hathaway come to mind. I read they sometimes even wear a hairpiece down there if they're shorn in real life. Late night skin flicks on Cinemax are a different story though.

[Joe Test Pilot]

As long as the pubic hair does not conflict with oral sex it should be what ever you want. Who wants to give oral sex and have a mouth full of hair at the same time? That is the question you need to answer in your relationship.

Also, you should define what a "bush" is, becuase some people have a freaking junglke and some have an oasis. If you do not trim and have an oasis, your probably ok But if your bush looks like Sid Hashian's late 70's hair (drummer for a band called Boston), then you need to make it into an oasis at best!

I do not see pubic hair interfearing with sexual intercoarse, but I know one time when my wife's hair was growing back, I felt some stuble and actually like the feeling or rubbing up on it while having intercoarse.

Take a halloween wig, put a sucker in the wig then try to lick the sucker. If you like that "conflict" keep your long female pubic hair. If you can see and understand the "conflict", help your man out and atleast trim it down to an 1/8 or 1/4" tall. And by no way should your pubic hair stick out of your bathing suite (or underwear) unless it is to be a practical joke or part of a halloween costume.

Lastly, its your body, its your intimacy. Don't let society tell you what to do. WHo says society is right? And really, this topic is just "splitting hairs" when compared to a topic about only having sex once a month, having sex with a partner who has a dissease or other major sexual matters.

[LanaBear]

But if your bush looks like Sid Hashian's late 70's hair (drummer for a band called Boston), then you need to make it into an oasis at best!

THAT IS HILARIOUS!!! Quite the comparison!

[Texasred]

But don't "help your man out" by shaving without asking first if he WANTS the "help."
Not all do.
And some of us just don't really care - it's all good! ;-)

[Beckers]

For me I like it best when there only a small area of hair, like a strip. But my bf loves bush because in his culture thats the norm. So sometimes I'll grow it out for him, and then I'll basically get rid of it all for me. lmao

You should probably do something similar. Do what you like and then do what he likes sometimes. But first you should actually ask him what he likes! Don't be shy.

[CreoleBelle007]

I believe it does make you look like a little girl. we are women, therefore women are supposed to had pubic hair. that's a contradiction- i trim but i do not shave everything.