[coolcat1]

Hi, ladies

I'm a black guy that can't get a woman of my race cuz of my size i think its okay but i guess for black woman its not i have 7.5 inches not really thin its fatter than a condom what should i do. I'm good looking have good job what should i do, i like all racist of women should i just stop messing around with black women. I've always messed around with black women I think i might need to date other race of women need some honest answers.

[kristalyn_04]

Here you go.

https://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/32128-final-word-breast-size-penis-size.html

'nuf said.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I knew you were going to do that krystylan

Not nuf said

Coolcat, I answered you on a redundant thread which I have now closed.....

So, ...

What makes you believe that it's your penis that drives a relationship away? And it's the size?

Men come in all sorts of sizes, regardless of race, women know that.

Have you evaluated the reason? Could it actually be the method in which you use it? Are you a caring loving partner? Are you a giver in bed?

And, lastly...Do they actually see you as exactly that, a cool cat , wanting to mess with them.

Not relationship material....

Because nor will a white woman if that is the case, or if you are only ever messing and making a woman feel that's all it is, no emotional attachment.

CW

[Hopeless Dork]

Bleah... there are 'size queens' in all races, all ethnicities in all sizes shapes and colors. 'Switching' which race you are dating hoping that your penis will appear bigger is nonsense. You should date who you are attracted to, who you are interested in... not who you think might ooh and ahh over the size of your junk. Do you really think thats all it takes to make you happy? Finding a woman that things you are the biggest thing on 2 legs?

To be honest most women could care less about the size of your penis as long as its not so big its impossible to have sex that feels good or so absolutely small... you fall on average. Meaning some women will think you are huge... some women will think you are smaller than her ex boyfriend and some will think you are JUSTTT right...

Most will be more attracted by how you look, how you carry yourself, how you make them feel inside, how special you treat them than to what you may be packing in your pants. The size of your penis will not attract a woman to you... it won't keep a woman with you... its all that stuff attached to it that will determain who's going to like you and want to be with you.

But if your focus is all on your own penis and how big you want it to be to her... more than learning how to push her sexual buttons ... then you won't find happiness with any women regaurdless of her race.

[Rareideals]

Bleah... there are 'size queens' in all races, all ethnicities in all sizes shapes and colors. 'Switching' which race you are dating hoping that your penis will appear bigger is nonsense. You should date who you are attracted to, who you are interested in... not who you think might ooh and ahh over the size of your junk. Do you really think thats all it takes to make you happy? Finding a woman that things you are the biggest thing on 2 legs?

To be honest most women could care less about the size of your penis as long as its not so big its impossible to have sex that feels good or so absolutely small... you fall on average. Meaning some women will think you are huge... some women will think you are smaller than her ex boyfriend and some will think you are JUSTTT right...

Most will be more attracted by how you look, how you carry yourself, how you make them feel inside, how special you treat them than to what you may be packing in your pants. The size of your penis will not attract a woman to you... it won't keep a woman with you... its all that stuff attached to it that will determain who's going to like you and want to be with you.

But if your focus is all on your own penis and how big you want it to be to her... more than learning how to push her sexual buttons ... then you won't find happiness with any women regaurdless of her race.

Great answer Hopeless Dork, most men suffer with penis envy and like most men I used to worry about that myself. Once I learned the art of focusing on her (she cums first rule) my sex life changed over night. I'm currently dating so sex seems to come up more often than not and find myself with exact opposite problem. I'm also a black man with the same size but probably a little thicker and the black woman I've dated still call me often. Don't get me wrong I'm not a dog, it just seems to happen. I've had woman tell me there last boyfriend/husband was longer/fatter or whatever, but felt like I was a better lover. He needs to ask himself does he seduce as a lover or does he just sex like a er. I pay very close attention to the woman I'm with. I realize very quickly what it will take to please her if we wind up sleeping together, I also make her feel like it's no big deal if we don't. Sex is not my goal. Finding the right woman is my goal. Her interest is my interest. Her world is the only world that counts when I'm with her. I talk less about me and get her to open up more about her. One of my favorites things to do through questioning is to make her cry and or get her angry on our first date, passion leads the way. Whatever she either cry's or gets angry about tells me about her passions. Enough said, I don't want give all my secrets away.

[Guest]

Partygal, one day you may get a partner with a 10inch penis and, when you have sex, it may be so uncomfortable as he scratches your cervix.

[jns]

Partygal, one day you may get a partner with a 10inch penis and, when you have sex, it may be so uncomfortable as he scratches your cervix.

Partygal has left the building. Sometimes it is best to let things go when someone says something outrageous.

[WildChild]

Sometimes people aren't who they pretend to be.
Sometimes they keep coming back trying different approaches or genders.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Partygal has left the building. Sometimes it is best to let things go when someone says something outrageous.

That makes Partygal a man? Having left the building

[jns]

That makes Partygal a man? Having left the building

Since Partygal was kicked off of wh, I made a reference to what is said after the musician has left the stage and is not returning for an encore.