[Hopeless Dork]

You think you look goofy, but you don't... and you especially won't to him. There are strippers that would put any professional dancer or gymnist to shame with their moves... but the vast majority -- can't dance a lick. Its not about your dancing, its about how sexy you look MOVING your body... grinding it against his... or a couple feet away from him. Its the look in your eyes... the way you toot your hiney out when you bend over in front of him .. shake your hair in his lap, rub your face against his thighs while looking up at him. Hop on his lap and rub your chest in face... pull your top down and rub your breasts on his face...

Turn around while still sitting on his slap and then slide down his body... when on the floor, crawl away from him a few feet while on hands and knees, drop to the ground and stick your butt up in the air... maybe smack it or rub your hand between your legs... turn around... give him peeks at your panties etc...

Its all teasing... its all look at my body you want to touch it don't you... but you cant at least not yet type stuff You cant do wrong... even if you giggle... the fact you are even trying is sexy. Keep in mind that you are the hottest woman in that room, and better than a 'real' stripper because he doesn't have to pay you to PRETEND to want him... you really do want him -- and thats what all those men are out there trying to fullfill in strip clubs-- the fantasy that some sexy woman WANTS him.. wants to please him...is giving him all her attention and offering up her body in seductive ways -- and you are more than the fantasy... you are the real deal...

[kristalyn_04]

omg HD that description was even turning ME on, and I'm straight! LOL...

OP, you go for it girl!

[Hopeless Dork]

haha kris xoxo

[WildChild]

Keep in mind that you are the hottest woman in that room, and better than a 'real' stripper because he doesn't have to pay you to PRETEND to want him... you really do want him -- and thats what all those men are out there trying to fullfill in strip clubs-- the fantasy that some sexy woman WANTS him.. wants to please him...is giving him all her attention and offering up her body in seductive ways -- and you are more than the fantasy... you are the real deal...

I loved this statement but it immediately brought to mind the question, when do we as women and men realize that we women have the same need? The need to feel the the man in our lives truly loves and wants us. When do we as a society and as individuals realize that that it isn't just about being or fulfilling his fantasy(s)? Its great to do this for your partner but at least in my 50+ years its been pretty one sided. There does need to be some give as well as take, balance, for a woman to really feel free to give fully and completely.

[Guest]

Yes, agree with Kristayln04, HD was getting me aroused as well !! Wildchild, what would you like your man to do for you to turn you on. Would you want him to strip?, do the ironing naked ? Come on, give us a clue?

[WildChild]

Well Thomas, him "stripping" would probably having me laughing hysterically. Its the little things that help me keep it juicy so I'm always on simmer, ready to take it up to a boil. Right now I'm in a new relationship so its all pretty fresh which makes it easier to identify.
A good morning text/call/snuggle, just to say I'm thinking of you. A quick text or call or two throughout the day, nothing lengthy just a wink.
He takes a shower and gets into clean clothes before we see each other.
The way his eyes widen and light up when he sees me.
He always wants a kiss and a snuggle first when we see each other no matter how much I'm bouncing around and excited about something.
He truly believes in ladies first, although he is learning that I'm a bit different from some other women he's been with, I love sex play, oral, touching, all the build up but take me over the top is intercourse.
He loves to snuggle and cuddle and be close, that makes me feel cared about.
Little things like both of us chiming in to sing along with an old Johnny Cash song that Pandora threw into my rock and roll mix.
Yes, he will suggest some problem solving, the other evening we went through an engine diagram for a mover I had been working on and he suggested a couple things I should check and couple tricks to get it going. I know if I asked for more involvement in that he would be happy to but he also understands the whole thing of digging into a project and getting through it yourself.
He shows me that he respects my opinion and views

Today he got me going, just stopping by to drop something off. Oooo black boots, jeans, black tee, still slightly damp hair flowing down his back, nice black Stetson. I was barefoot, braless, in jeans and little tee top, hair tumbling all over the place, with a 4" scraper in my hand and he just scooped me up in a kiss and let me snuggle right into shoulder and chest and I was ready to take him right down to the sidewalk. I got him inside and on the couch for a little smooching but he whispered in my ear that he had to go and a few hints about what's in store this evening.
He Knows anticipation gets me going!

[Guest]

Oh, Wildchild, you're as bad a HD for getting me aroused. Now I'm going to have to go and change my underwear. Seriously though, sounds lovely. have fun x

[gatitia]

You all give great advice, Do chk out my post and tell me what you think. TY...

[Guest]

I was barefoot, braless, in jeans and little tee top, hair tumbling all over the place

OMG - When I see the woman I love like this, it makes me go crazy with lust for her....

[Tod121]

You think you look goofy, but you don't... and you especially won't to him. There are strippers that would put any professional dancer or gymnist to shame with their moves... but the vast majority -- can't dance a lick. Its not about your dancing, its about how sexy you look MOVING your body... grinding it against his... or a couple feet away from him. Its the look in your eyes... the way you toot your hiney out when you bend over in front of him .. shake your hair in his lap, rub your face against his thighs while looking up at him. Hop on his lap and rub your chest in face... pull your top down and rub your breasts on his face...

Turn around while still sitting on his slap and then slide down his body... when on the floor, crawl away from him a few feet while on hands and knees, drop to the ground and stick your butt up in the air... maybe smack it or rub your hand between your legs... turn around... give him peeks at your panties etc...

Its all teasing... its all look at my body you want to touch it don't you... but you cant at least not yet type stuff You cant do wrong... even if you giggle... the fact you are even trying is sexy. Keep in mind that you are the hottest woman in that room, and better than a 'real' stripper because he doesn't have to pay you to PRETEND to want him... you really do want him -- and thats what all those men are out there trying to fullfill in strip clubs-- the fantasy that some sexy woman WANTS him.. wants to please him...is giving him all her attention and offering up her body in seductive ways -- and you are more than the fantasy... you are the real deal...

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Yep, listen to HD, she's got it down to tee! My wife has never stipped for me like this but it would be amazing to see!