[CaliGirl7]

Sorry to tell you it is him. Well not really its both of you. People who are young and in love like to be intimate with eachother hence what your sex life use to be like. You commented that you've been through a lot with eachother. There is you're problem. Typical males are problem solvers and try to fix things. Typical women do not need their problems solved as they are smart enough to figure it out on their own.

My guess is you're starting to lose your connection with him. Men can have sex because they want sex. Many women cannot or do want to if they don't feel a connection with their mate. It happens often.

I'd say be honest with yourself about how you really feel and address that. I also find it interesting that you preface your post by telling everyone how happy you are. Some would say that maybe you're trying to fool someone?

The stuff that we had gone through wasnt so much a problem i couldnt figure out how to solve it was more i was alone and he was all i had. I literally lost everything and he was there when everyone walked out.
It def. brought us closer, but then about a year later he did something that most girls would have broken off the relationship after finding out, he didnt literally cheat on me but he was texting other girls and had naked photos and thats when everything changed. for MONTHS i didnt think we were gonna make it. But we got through it and sometimes i still think about it when im feeling insecure.
But i really dont think he would do it again, but isnt that what every gf wants to think. I know what your gonna say, and yes i know that could be why things arent working between us. But im not ready to give up, i've thought about breaking up before and when we didnt talk for a while it broke my heart and i couldnt stop thinking about him, even though i was the one who wanted the "space". it really does suck that he did it but i am the one who chose to stay with him knowing what he did, so essentially i needed to get over it.

And maybe im just fooling myself..maybe i cant make this work. lately ive felt underappreciated and i feel like he doesnt respect me anymore. We also NEVERRRR do anything. i go to his house and we watch tv or he comes over to mine. I dont mind being lazy and watching tv or movies but i want to be able to do things with him, make memories. I just want us to be happy again, and go out again.