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  • jns
    Assistant Admin
    • Mar 2010
    • 8398

    If you find a girl or a group of girls discount you due to your race, simply cross them off of your list. One of my coworkers is of Asian decent and his wife was Caucasian (she died of cancer several years back). His daughter is a typical American teenager with many Asian features, but some that are more Caucasian. So if your looking for a Caucasian gf/wife, don't give up. However it is much better to look at personalities, because you will get a better fit that way. Find someone you are easily compatible with. Most people will look within the group of people with similar characteristics to the people they grew up with as they stereotypically believe that such people will have similar and compatible values. I believe this is not so. My wife is from Thailand. She has similarities in being from a rural area and growing up poor.
    I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
    ...
    Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

    From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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    • Onlymaytherebehappiness
      Member
      • Apr 2011
      • 12

      Haha dont worry WildChild, having a average sized penis, i am quite grateful, knowing that Asians are known for smaller cocks lol.

      Hopeless Dork
      Get to know people on an individual basis, when you meet a girl... she is NOT thinking about your penis... she can probably care less. Unless you have a thumbtack between your legs, or a horses member... she's likely not going to notice your size to the quarter centimeter even... it will matter more how you make her feel, with it, and with your actions (most importantly).

      For some girls race will be an issue, for some girls it couldn't matter less. Some will be influenced by friends, some won't be.

      You are wanting people not to generalize and treat you like an individual, you first have to do the same. If you carry around this idea of how people are going to think - it will effect how you interact with people - which will effect how they interact back with you.
      Haha thanks for clearing that up to me, i suppose its really just a matter of if they accept a person of different race

      jns
      Low nutrient levels do stunt growth and reduce the average height of people. Being able to adapt to low nutrient levels allows for living in marginal areas or living at higher population densities. Asians who move to areas of higher nutrient levels often see their children who were born in such areas growing significantly taller. But height is not a good indicator of penis length.
      Ye Mate I've been living in Aus ever since i was born, and whenever i head back to China(where I'm from) its always so distinguishable. As a matter of fact, growing up, whenever i went to China people would always comment on my feet, saying they were large, whereas back in a White society, its completely normal, probably just the fact that many regions in Asia are only just recovering from poverty.


      Thanks Mark, I agree, if a couple really is in love, nothing really matters.

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      • Onlymaytherebehappiness
        Member
        • Apr 2011
        • 12

        jns
        If you find a girl or a group of girls discount you due to your race, simply cross them off of your list. One of my coworkers is of Asian decent and his wife was Caucasian (she died of cancer several years back). His daughter is a typical American teenager with many Asian features, but some that are more Caucasian. So if your looking for a Caucasian gf/wife, don't give up. However it is much better to look at personalities, because you will get a better fit that way. Find someone you are easily compatible with. Most people will look within the group of people with similar characteristics to the people they grew up with as they stereotypically believe that such people will have similar and compatible values. I believe this is not so. My wife is from Thailand. She has similarities in being from a rural area and growing up poor.
        Wow quite sad for that friend of yours, hope they're all good. Its nice to hear that in a modern society hooking up with different kind of people isn't too rare.

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        • WildChild
          Banned
          • Sep 2008
          • 14142

          I've noticed that with many groups that were rather isolated, it really is true that they become inbred. People are smaller. When I worked around people from the middle eastern desert areas (very insular in the past) it was particularly noticeable. Over and over, the much taller, better looking people turned out to have a parent or grandparent of another ethnicity. It was like that infusion of new genes just set off an explosion. I've noticed that people from coastal regions or on traditional trade routes will look different than people from more isolated interior areas of all nations. Of course diet is a factor if a people are limited in what foods they have access to and if they are nutritionally deficient, but inbreeding, even with a good sized population eventually seems to create smaller people. So many cross ethic people are just beautiful. Their parents may be very ordinary but their children will be lovely.

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          • spurzzz
            Veteran Member
            • Mar 2011
            • 246

            "and im definetly not just gonna go for people my race... coz thats just silly in my opinion."

            Why not? This post seems like a Troll to me. Im sorry but that comment is ridiculous.....

            This post is all about making fun out of asian people.

            Why do people think its fun to post such drivel is beyond me....
            I am going to tell you what you don't want to hear!
            Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't

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            • jns
              Assistant Admin
              • Mar 2010
              • 8398

              Originally posted by spurzzz
              "and im definetly not just gonna go for people my race... coz thats just silly in my opinion."

              Why not?
              I don't understand. Are you saying that people should just go for people of their race?
              I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
              ...
              Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

              From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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              • spurzzz
                Veteran Member
                • Mar 2011
                • 246

                Nope Jns:

                He did not clarify why he said it was silly thats why I asked him. To say its silly? What does that mean............
                I am going to tell you what you don't want to hear!
                Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't

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                • jns
                  Assistant Admin
                  • Mar 2010
                  • 8398

                  Its silly in his opinion. He is entitled to his own opinion. Of course in a repressive society, talking the wrong way about those who have power could cost you money or your life or both. The only place where I have seen overt discrimination with my wife and I was in a restaurant in Florida, where we weren't served as others after us were served the same sort of food. There are many who still don't believe in racial mixing.
                  I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                  ...
                  Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                  From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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                  • spurzzz
                    Veteran Member
                    • Mar 2011
                    • 246

                    Everyone is entitled to an opinion obviously, but in this case he did not clarify why he said something and so I asked him about it.

                    There is still a lot of discrimination and racism in the world. Not as much as before but there still is.

                    What I don't understand is how you came to the conclusion that and I quote "I don't understand. Are you saying that people should just go for people of their race?"

                    How on earth did you render me with this sort of mentality through the post I sent him?
                    I am going to tell you what you don't want to hear!
                    Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't

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                    • jns
                      Assistant Admin
                      • Mar 2010
                      • 8398

                      Originally posted by spurzzz
                      Everyone is entitled to an opinion obviously, but in this case he did not clarify why he said something and so I asked him about it.

                      There is still a lot of discrimination and racism in the world. Not as much as before but there still is.

                      What I don't understand is how you came to the conclusion that and I quote "I don't understand. Are you saying that people should just go for people of their race?"

                      How on earth did you render me with this sort of mentality through the post I sent him?
                      Surprisingly we even have politicians who express racist or bigoted or separatist expressions from time to time.

                      I thought you were talking about the first part of the phrase where you were thinking about the word "silly". That is why I asked for clarification. Step back and reread the posts again. You may see what I questioned.
                      I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                      ...
                      Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                      From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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