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  • lizzardb63
    Veteran Member
    • Aug 2010
    • 1493

    How to get past the taste

    I've never let a man ejaculate in my mouth until my current boyfriend, for reasons of inexperience and not knowing what to expect. Well, it wasn't that bad, but I found myself the last time I did it almost gagging, now I have a fear that I will gag every time. I know diet has a lot to do with the taste of it, but just the thought of it makes me want to gag. How do you ladies get past the taste? I know some like it, but I have to admitt, its not the best, lol. I just want to add that my boyfriend wants me to do this, because he feels its more intimate and makes us closer (which I can understand, because that's how I feel when I'm on the pill and he comes inside me). Any advice would be great!
  • Guest

    A friend of mine says his wife makes him eat a lot of fruit 3 days before and it makes it "fruity", sorry, but that's all I know. My wife won't do any of it- nope, she wants no part of it.

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    • ItsASecret
      APRIL 2011 POSTER OF THE MONTH
      • Apr 2009
      • 3721

      I do not know either. I tried for a long time to at least have my bf cum in my mouth but it got to the point where it was chunky and thick. If I let him finish in my mouth I would open it and just let it literally drop out in chunks, not the most pleasing thing in the world. It is sometimes watery and sometimes chunky, his diet never changes and it is just hit and miss for me so I simply will not do it anymore because I do gag. And then the times that I decide to just let him finish in my mouth it is either tasting bad or chunky again. No consistency to the consistency. And I feel bad because I should not have that reaction but the texture is the absolute worst thing. Even if it was zero taste (which it will always have a taste) that texture is no good. People say chug yogurt and just slosh it around in your mouth for the same effect to get used to it...I gag at the taste of yogurt so I cannot try that method. The taste can improve with diet but again it is hit and miss. Not all guys will have a definite change in taste even after eating 5 bananas.
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      • WildChild
        Banned
        • Sep 2008
        • 14142

        Being well hydrated is a biggie.
        I've noticed that smokers cum flat out burns, it burns your mouth, throat and in your stomach for hours. If he smokes that will be a factor. If you are with a heavy smoke, just don't bring him to ejaculation orally, you can keep it just pre or during play.
        There are a number of self sacrificing couples who have researched this and put their results on line. You can find pages and pages of info on what foods make cum taste better - it applies to women too.

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        • Texasred
          Veteran Member
          • Oct 2009
          • 1216

          Originally posted by MarkT
          A friend of mine says his wife makes him eat a lot of fruit 3 days before...
          Now THAT is really planning your sex life in advance!

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          • kristalyn_04
            Veteran Member
            • Oct 2009
            • 2164

            Have him snack on pineapple for a couple of days straight, and stay away from salty and garlic foods, and avoid excessive amounts of coffee which can make it taste bitter. I'll also mention that having his cum in your mouth is not (and shouldn't be) a requirement. If you don't like it, just don't do it. He's very lucky to be getting a BJ from his lady in the first place, so he should be ok with that.

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            • Robert42d
              Member
              • Apr 2011
              • 62

              Not all women like the taste of cum! Many finds it revolting! It's deffinately an acquired taste.. But for most men it's like the frosting on the cake...

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              • Ashlee T.
                Veteran Member
                • Dec 2008
                • 6412

                Not all men are the same in that regard. Some are thick and chunky like ItsASecret said (ICK!) , some are more lotiony and creamy, and some are more watery.

                The best thing I found to do is push the penis as far back towards the throat as possible when he's ejaculating. Then, begin swallowing instantly. Basically, that gets it out of your mouth before you've had time to really taste it. Guys that want you to hold it in your mouth so they can see it on your tongue afterwards, well, they've watched too much porn and I'd tell em to accept what they can get, or do without bj's altogether. lol.

                As for the diet thing, the same goes for women. Perhaps if he ever mentions you tasting good you could mention "Thanks babe. I read that if you eat lots of fruits and drink lots of water it helps the "flavor" so I try to stay away from red meats, garlic, salt etc as much as possible. I want to taste good for you!". *hint hint*
                "Be what you're looking for."

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                • jns
                  Assistant Admin
                  • Mar 2010
                  • 8398

                  Why not have him try what he is giving you with a big wet kiss? Then if it is objectionable, you can discuss it with him.
                  I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
                  ...
                  Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?

                  From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, Virginia

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                  • Robert42d
                    Member
                    • Apr 2011
                    • 62

                    I agree,the closest to the back of your throat his penis is! If you swallow shortly after,the less of chance you'll have on tasting it..

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