I would urge you to visit your doctor, they will be able to see instantly if anything looks out of place and you can feel pleased when you have the all clear rather than worrying about it.
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I think most women can end up filled with air after having sex in certain positions. I went through a phase when I "queefed" outside of the bedroom a few times and I worried that something strange was going on. I only ever have that problem during/after sex occasionally now and I have been doing my Kegals and core strength workouts so I think you probably have some sound advice above!
I would urge you to visit your doctor, they will be able to see instantly if anything looks out of place and you can feel pleased when you have the all clear rather than worrying about it.Every passing minute is another chance to turn it all around. -
Oh my god, I thought I was the only one. I'm 15 and I have this. It's not like my vagina is loose at all, and in any other position besides laying flat on my back it feels fine and tight enough. When I lay on my back, if I put a finger in there is just nothing. I can reach in any direction and its just air. I push all the way forward, and it's just smooth skin. I am normally very tight, but in this position I could honestly feel like I could fit a few fingers in. When I push (like you were gonna almost push a baby) all the tightness comes back from above, but relaxed its just all air. I don't think it is a tightness issue, and I've definitely never had kids before (haha!) and sometimes when I lay on my back and almost suck in my stomach, it sucks in air, and does the opposite when I push out. When I wake up from laying flat on my back, and sit up, all the air comes out and it's super embarrassing. I noticed it started happening right after I lost my virginity, and I also have septate hymn (I think that's what you call it) if that changes anything. It's really scary because I would think I'd be able to feel a cervix if I pushed all the way back, but I can feel all the way back and there's nothing. It's feels almost 5-6 fingers wide in almost every direction and its really scary because I know that's not how it's supposed to be. It goes back to normal as soon as I sit up a bit though. Thanks for any replies.Comment
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OMG!! I have this problem too!! I could actually cry right now I am so happy to find that im not the only one!! Im 18 and have had this problem also since I was around 15, is there any way to private message on this website, Id love to discuss this with you so we can hopefully find an answer and some help!!!! XxOh my god, I thought I was the only one. I'm 15 and I have this. It's not like my vagina is loose at all, and in any other position besides laying flat on my back it feels fine and tight enough. When I lay on my back, if I put a finger in there is just nothing. I can reach in any direction and its just air. I push all the way forward, and it's just smooth skin. I am normally very tight, but in this position I could honestly feel like I could fit a few fingers in. When I push (like you were gonna almost push a baby) all the tightness comes back from above, but relaxed its just all air. I don't think it is a tightness issue, and I've definitely never had kids before (haha!) and sometimes when I lay on my back and almost suck in my stomach, it sucks in air, and does the opposite when I push out. When I wake up from laying flat on my back, and sit up, all the air comes out and it's super embarrassing. I noticed it started happening right after I lost my virginity, and I also have septate hymn (I think that's what you call it) if that changes anything. It's really scary because I would think I'd be able to feel a cervix if I pushed all the way back, but I can feel all the way back and there's nothing. It's feels almost 5-6 fingers wide in almost every direction and its really scary because I know that's not how it's supposed to be. It goes back to normal as soon as I sit up a bit though. Thanks for any replies.Comment
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Omg! I also thought I was the only one! Im 17. I'm so self conscious about it and feel like people will be weirded out if I ask them about it. I have googled it and couldn't find anything until I came across this so I made an account so I could reply to you guys and see if theres anyway I could message one of you guys. when I lift my legs back ( like you would do put your legs on your partners shoulders ) its like a huge gaping hole! I can push the air out and itll make a queefing noise but shortly after it fills back up and is once again a huge gaping hole. Idk how anybody could enjoy sex with me?! they wouldn't be able to feel anything!!Comment
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when im laying down and stick a finger inside me it also because a wide open hole when I relax my muscles. I feel like I cant even describe it.. when my vagina opens up in the big hole itll make a noise like air is being released which makes no sense because I push all the air back out to close it up which also makes a noise like air is being releasedComment
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omg i have just seen your reply!! is there anyway we can contact each other through private message?!when im laying down and stick a finger inside me it also because a wide open hole when I relax my muscles. I feel like I cant even describe it.. when my vagina opens up in the big hole itll make a noise like air is being released which makes no sense because I push all the air back out to close it up which also makes a noise like air is being releasedComment
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I just read your reply to my reply
I’ve talked to some of my friends about this and they have NO idea what I’m talking about and don’t understand what I mean. I’m so desperate to talk to somebody who has this problem! It won’t let me send private messages but I’m still trying to figure out if there’s a way I can!
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i havent spoken to anyone about this as i am way too embarassed!! i am desperate to find out what on earth this problem is but i just have no idea where to find help / advice, there seems to be NOTHING on the internet meaning this cant be common :-( i have also tried to message you but no luck!! do you have an email address XI just read your reply to my reply
I’ve talked to some of my friends about this and they have NO idea what I’m talking about and don’t understand what I mean. I’m so desperate to talk to somebody who has this problem! It won’t let me send private messages but I’m still trying to figure out if there’s a way I can!Comment
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Dearest girls with this problem! I had this problem a year or two back. I hva a child and this happend to me many years after the natural birth... But still... Only happened when on my back. When I sat or stood up it would be squeezed together with no room at all. I have read a similar thing happened to a 17 year old girl, she was very tight on the outside, but a huge cave inside.. No contact with any walls. So this can happen to a girl in any stage... The doctor online answering this girl, said it is a very common problem and for this reason it's common to solve the problem with the woman sitting on top. So it is common it seems, but what happens inside our body is still taboo, and so "mysterious". Just think of it, any boy, man, having something with him and he wonders if it's normal, he can take a peek in the public bath, showers at school..but for us girls, we're just left with guessing and very much on our own, or the sometimes poor judgement of a silly/immature bf, who doesn't have a clue either.
So I have always tried to do kegel, but it just didn't do anything for me. But then I found an electric device, and within three four mounts the problem got better and better. Now after two years the walls are gripping together when I lay on my back, without me using the muscles. What helped me, was this device, it's called a pelvic toner, you can find it at amazon or a place called kegel8. This device strengthened my pelvic floor in a way I couldn't do on my own. And after just one month with using it, orgasms got double strong. Even if I couldn't see that much had happened with the problem discussed yet. So be patient. Keep using it and after sometime you can advance to something called the kegel master, where you can train the muscles really targeted. This has helped me. And I don't think I personally would have managed without the help from this products. I am just so sorry that no one told me about this, I had to go many years thinking I was wrong made, until I finally heard about this on a health program on TV.. I am actually quite angry information isn't given to girls in better ways... And sooner.Last edited by Naval; 01-04-2014, 07:16 PM.Comment
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