This goes out to both sexes. I think there will be some correlation between the answers here and age. In my younger days I can say that I came across (no pun) some pretty talented ladies yet too young to be considered experienced. Today and with my current s/o the opposite would seem to apply as she is NOW amazing but started out no so experienced and needed some "practice". Tough call!! What do YOU think?
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I can't vote for either one of those, because IMO Enthusiasm and Confidence is King.
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Yep, I'd go with enthusiasm and confidence over everything else.Comment
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Ok guys, let's assume both the experienced person AND the talented one are both confident and enthusiastic. Geesh!! Aww, just forget it!!Comment
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I could care less about experience, and raw talent? Unless by raw talent you mean a natural desire to please, a willingness to listen and learn my body than yes... raw talent. There is no way for a man to be a good lover without him knowing what the woman he's with likes and wants... HER, SPECIFICALLY. Knowing what it took make 10 other girls cum is completely irrelevent to making girl number 11 cum. We are all so different in what we like and don't like and what it takes to get us there.Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.Comment
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Neither, personality trumps all. Enthusiasm is also good. To love and be loved is quite high, also.I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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