I know that my beliefs differ from most others here. If I openly oppose my husbands wishes, I feel guilty. I guess you would call it being subservient but I see it as my duty and responsibility. If only hubby would be thrifty like me and slow down with his spending, my life would be perfect. I can't bring myself to argue with him about this, I will continue to try and change him by setting an example.
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This morning I had a doctor appointment at 8AM. Great news, doctor says my incisions are healed and I can get back to my normal routine AND have sex if I want to. Boy do I want to. We went to the Sleep Train mattress store and found a Tempur pedic mattress on sale because of cosmetic damage. It had a small tear in the side of the mattress at the head. Nobody would ever see it any way and we got $450 off the regular price. At the time, I didn't care how much it cost, I just wanted to get home and in the bedroom.
I know that my beliefs differ from most others here. If I openly oppose my husbands wishes, I feel guilty. I guess you would call it being subservient but I see it as my duty and responsibility. If only hubby would be thrifty like me and slow down with his spending, my life would be perfect. I can't bring myself to argue with him about this, I will continue to try and change him by setting an example.sigpic
Not thinking about anything is Zen. Once you know this, walking, sitting, or lying down, everything you do is Zen.
― Bodhidharma -
They delivered the Tempur mattress and set it up yesterday. After I did my morning chores I tried it out for a short nap. It is like a dream for sleeping. I want one for our room but I know we can't afford it.sigpic
Not thinking about anything is Zen. Once you know this, walking, sitting, or lying down, everything you do is Zen.
― BodhidharmaComment
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My sister from Hawaii is here for a visit. She slept on the Tempurpedic in the guest room last night. This morning she asked us what kind of mattress it was because it was like sleeping on a cloud. She likes it so much she'll try and get one for her room at home.sigpic
Not thinking about anything is Zen. Once you know this, walking, sitting, or lying down, everything you do is Zen.
― BodhidharmaComment
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