[WildChild]

To be perfectly frank I have never (and I've been around a lot longer than you have) been with a man who maintains a high sex drive and interest after 6 months or so. Then I'm still wanting it and they are fine with slowing it down. My experience that is that once they know they have a woman in their life who really wants it they must relax a bit or something.

A word to the wise. if you are practicing porn sex all the time she will lose interest, maybe not in sex but in sex with you. Porn does a huge disservice in bringing men and some women to thinking that is how women respond - it isn't. Not generally and not consistently. I was with a man I loved passionately and sex went from loving, passionate, fun and playful to fulfilling his porn fantasies, to pretty much drop your pants and I'll shove it in. I still loved him, was still totally turned on by him and always ready but I left him because there was nothing loving or caring left in it.

The truly good lover delights in pleasuring their partner and want to feel them tremble with desire and will find ways to build up the anticipation and arousal throughout the day so that she is always feeling juicy. You will NOT get there when it is All about the penis and what you want.

[oxy-moron]

Some really good advice on this thread.
Beware of what you are tying yourself to. It has been noted on this site many times that the person who least wants sex controls the relationship.( Male or Female)
If sex is important to you dont get involved with someone who avoids sex.
If boating was very important to you would you marry someone who got seasick everytime.
The fact that she hadnt Orgasmed before should show you that she had little drive to experiment with herself.

Anti depressants cause low sex drive and impede orgasms.
She would be better off taking a more natural path to fix her problems. Omega 3 fats like fish oil or flax oil will help with depression. Probiotic tablets will help most stomach problems.
Read some of the old threads on this site. If they dont scare you nothing will.

BEWARE!

[PinkySweet]

Im sorry to here that! Right now I wouldnt get married if I was you, I would definetly sit her down and talk about the problem, but remember to be nice, understand and try to get her to explain why she doesnt want to, you need to be understanding from where shes coming from too!

Also, Oxy-Moron is right about anit-depressants lowering sex drive!

However, Iam a CPhT(Certified Pharmacy Technician) and there is a drug called Zestra, thats hieghtens the feeling for women! Maybe that will intise her! ... While I was in school for pharmacy I did learn their working on drugs like viagra basically for women... It will probably be many years until anything like that it developed though.

I would read this article if I was you.


But Im in no way saying give her viagra! lol