[oxy-moron]

Hi
Maybe you could try coming to an agreement- negotiate.
Possibly if you do things the way he wants then next time he does it your way.
Sex if you do it the same way is going to become boring anyway.
Maybe do some research on things like Tantric sex or Karezza and see if things can be more interesting for both of you. Get into massage sessions- try to boost the intimacy of the whole experience.

[rcoreyus]

He is asking a lot from you. What is he doing for you that makes him worth this?

[highanddry]

Thanks guys means a lot

[highanddry]

He does do a heck of a lot for me, he makes more money then I do i do things to show him I appreciate what he does for me and I will look into those suggestions. Thanks! Hopefully that will work, I just got my wisdom teeth out so that should give me sometime to think of stuff.