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  • rocketbar
    Junior Member
    • Jul 2011
    • 2

    I like a guy to be hairy. If they do more than just trim it's a turn off. My husband shaves more than me and I feel like the dude of the relationship. I trim but he shaves everything and I find him less manly for it. I struggle greatly with it. He doesn't seem to care either that I feel more manly than him over the issue. Any tips?

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    • nic22
      Member
      • Dec 2010
      • 39

      my gf use to shave it all off, I asked her to leave some and she since has and she likes it better now and so do I. I shave some areas and trim but do have some hair. She likes and I personally like it better too. I have shaved it all before and HATED it, feel like a little boy. Looks odd to me. But each to their own.

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      • Guest

        It's all personal tastes. There's nothing unwomanly about having pubic hair anymore than it is unmanly to be shaven. Personally I shave below the pubic bone line etc and trim the top so that it doesn't get uncomfortable. I hear some women say they don't like men to be competely shaven as they look like boys. Seems logical, although when my g/f shaves I don't think of her as a little girl. I just love the look of her with no hair.

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        • Rikky
          Junior Member
          • May 2010
          • 2

          A little trimming is just fine, but it still depends on individual taste or feeling

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          • sallywi2003
            Senior Member
            • Jul 2010
            • 103

            I really like being clean shaven in regards to a guy if he want to that is fine if not that is fine it is all about comfort and what each other likes.

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            • Laraa
              Member
              • Jul 2011
              • 14

              I personally like to shave only because i feel cleaner in myself, partner wouldnt really mind. In a man though im not to fussed providing that they are clean its all good for me

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              • Tahoe
                Member
                • Sep 2010
                • 43

                I like mine smooth with a landing strip. My wife likes some hair. It really doesn't bother me being smooth when my wife it hairy. I find in the hot weather smooth and hair free make things much cooler. I also find that wife/girlfriend will get use to it in time.

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                • Guest

                  Laraa,

                  You're right. You boyfriend shouldn't mind whether you shave. However, I do prefer it to be groomed. But I would never insist upon it. If I really cared for a woman, I would really care for all of her. Were I to ask a woman anything, I would ask that she not shave it all off. The little girl look turns me off to the point that I have to make excuses for why I am not in the mood. I want to be with a woman who's comfortable being a woman. I do not want to be with a girl.


                  Take care,

                  Taos

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                  • Baldswede
                    Junior Member
                    • Aug 2011
                    • 1

                    Hi Blue, just so you know, you're not alone about your "pubic hair status" relationship. Me and my gf have had the same way as yours for about 5 years now and we love it! We're from Europe and we're also nudist and swingers so we have seen a quite a few naked couples during our time together and the last year it has not been to unusual to see couples where the gf sports a big bush and the bf is totally hairless.

                    Have a nice day

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                    • kiwi guy
                      Member
                      • Jan 2012
                      • 39

                      I (a middle aged male) have recently started shaving all my pubic hair off too recently & really prefer / enjoy the smooth effect & feel a lot better being completely hairless! When you think about it, what purpose does hair down there do anyway??
                      I also prefer woman either shaven or with blonde / light brown hair there (I'm fussy!) - what do others prefer in pubic hair colour?

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