[ska1331]

Believe me it hasn't been for lack of trying. My wife has been very closed about sex. Its only been the last year or so that she has even begun to allow me in. We had been in counselling years back and that helped, but still kept me locked out of her own little private world so to speak.In a way I kind of gave up. Still late is better than not at all.

[PinkySweet]

Wow, Ive never thought about erotic emails! So since I read this topic earlier Im now in the process of working on a erotic story for my fiance.

[Texasred]

My first thought was a slower approach, a simple question to her, more seductive style of letter, "I see you in the glow of the sun, a blanket layed out by a tree, you naked against the tree, smiling at me as I am walking towards you, with love and lust in your eyes, what do we do next?

That sounds absolutely perfect: I have gotten a letter like that in the past, and the back-and-forth the followed was very erotic, not to mention romantic!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I have never played that game Not that I wouldn't mind you Texasred, but the "romantic" side of it, I was viewing how she has really never opened up, coupled with feeling left out of a past action the OP had, so I figured romance is definately part of her character and also a way to help her open up more... Hense the suggestion.... It's different, I think if you have no inhibitions or if you've opened up to everything already....

[ska1331]

Ok an update on the letters thing. As of tonight I sent an email off to my wife in which I started an erotic tale. It was sort of a primer if you will. It leads you up to a point to allow her imagination run wild. From there I asked to let me know if she wishes for me to continue, on my own or with guidance/ input from her, or if she wishes to take over. I will let you all know how it goes.

[wendilee]

wow, this is like a romantic novel..i need my blanket, a nice comfy chair, so i can sit and read...
what a lucky woman for you to do this. its all so sexy, and romantic, and a little bit naughty...
i cant wait to see what happens next!!!

[---Beany---]

I hate to say it, but you might have to be careful. She may think you're writing letters purely because she's upset, not because you feel a desire too.
I think it may be the motivation she's more interested in.

[curiouswife]

I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!! SoCoKen has the right idea too! Wish my husband would do this with me.....I may have to initiate something like that...... Can't wait to hear how she responds!!!!

[ska1331]

Well she has responded. She said she has enjoyed it so far and can't wait to see where it goes from here. Beany- the letters were found over 7 years ago. We have just reached a new and interesting phase of our life and she has now become open to such things. I can't wait to get the time to do the next follow up of the letter.

[ska1331]

Here is what I sent her. Hope I don't get in trouble for posting it.
Come follow me on a dream for a little while. PLease relax and take some time to clear your mind and forget about your day's stresses. Put on a little incense, some quiet music and dim the lights.After a wonderful night together spent in each others arms, you've awakened and showered and are now standing in the living room, wearing only a T- shirt and drinking your morning coffee while looking out the window at the ocean. I , unknown to you, have also awaken. While you are lost in your thoughts as you enjoy the beautiful morning view, I quietly come behind you. Without a word, I wrap my arms around your waist and hold you close to me. I bend down and softly kiss you good morning on your cheek. At this you relax into my arms and begin to enjoy my morning embrace. Together we stand there, both of us silently enjoying our moment together. Then with out a word or permission, I once again bend down and begin to kiss your cheek, only this time after my kiss you turn your head and I softly kiss your lips. I continue with soft kisses to your lips, then I begin to softly kiss my way down your neck to your shoulder. While I am kissing you my hands begin to roam your body while drawing you closer to me. While my left hand begins to gently caress your breast, my right hand slides down your right thigh. As you begin to focus you attention on the travels of my right hand on your thigh, softly tracing up and down while dipping to the inside between your thighs coming ever so close to the special spot you so wish I would touch yet never touching it, you suddenly notice my member pressing against your buttocks. You begin to softly rotate your buttocks against my shaft, pressing firmer against me in the hopes to tease me alittle. This only makes you want me more as I lower my other hand slowly down from your breast, softly crossing your stomach, gliding down over your mound and between your legs. Instead of pleasing you, I begin massaging your lips and inner thighs with both my hands, being careful to not give any attention to your special little button. Being completely frustrated with this, you reach behind you to grasp and stroke me. At this I wisper to you " No, not yet. Not here." and this somewhat confuses you. As you are about to ask " What the do you mean no?", I sweep you up into my arms and carry out onto the balcony deck and lay you down on the lounge. Youagain attemp to question me to which I say " shhh. Trust me my love. I will only please you."