[wenwen]

My bf thinks I've slept with others guy because my vagina does't feel tight. What is going on to me?
Pls help me!!!
Any way can firm them up so that they don't feel so loose.

[alibaby]

Kegel exercises

You can do Kegel exercises. The pelvic floor muscles are the same muscles that you use to control your urine flow. The exercises involve squeezing, holding(for several seconds), and then releasing these muscles several times per session, a few times a day. They can be done anywhere, anytime. This is supposed to help tighten up the vagina. You can do a web search for 'Kegel exercises' to find out about how the exercise should be done. Vaginas come in different sizes, so your boyfriend shouldn't be concerned. Try the excercises.

[yorkielass]

kegel excercises

I have heard of this too

[wenwen]

Thankyou so much..... thankyou for all your response.
And 1 things, i need somebody to teach me how to do?
My bf watched porn video everyday, everynight in his room. He liked to download from the internet and burned into the dvd so that he can watch at home. I've talk to him, and he said jus for a collection and it such a kinda new things to him. Ohh God!
What should I do? Jus let him??
I need some advise from you all guys.

[alibaby]

You're welcome. You don't need anyone to teach you how to do the exercises. You just squeeze, and release your vaginal muscles. You can do it anytime...like when you're watching tv, doing dishes, driving the car...whenever the mood hits you.

About your boyfriend watching porn: If he's watching every day and night, he sounds like he may be addicted to porn. You may have a hard time getting him away from it. Don't pretend that you don't see what he's doing. It bothers you and everytime you look at him it will always be in your mind...you will grow to resent him for it. Tell him that you don't like it and you don't want him to watch it anymore. If he's concerned about your feelings, he will stop it because he loves you and doesn't want you to be unhappy with him, or atleast be willing to seek some sort of help for himself. If not, then you have to decide if you can tolerate seeing him watching porn instead of spending that time focused on you.

[wenwen]

Thankyou ...
I talked to him, its doesn't work. He not listen but jus give me the same answer, watch dvd for collection. But I'm not understand, why he still play de dvd when I'm in his room.. He did not ask me... watch together but telling me de new sex thingy.
what he is trying to do?
Im not understand, can't understand him anymore.

[soldatka]

I have to say, your guy is way off the mark if he thinks that you have been with other guys...if you have had lots of children then things can get a bit loose but no way through sleeping with other people. I wonder if the problem is more with him than with you.

[alibaby]

I wonder if the problem is more with him than with you.

I agree. Maybe he has the problem, not you.

Was your boyfriend watching porn before he met you? Did something in his life change recently? And you said that he burns dvd's to make a collection that he watches at home. I hope that he's not doing this at his job (if he has one).

[housewife]

My bf watched porn video everyday, everynight in his room. He liked to download from the internet and burned into the dvd so that he can watch at home. I've talk to him, and he said jus for a collection and it such a kinda new things to him. .

wenwen
After reading reading your posts, I am sure that you are fine and your vagina is fine and you don't need any exercises.

What is wrong here is that guy sitting in his bedroom watching other women naked and having sex, and in the end of the day comes to accuse you of infidelity, and make you feel insecure about your body.

Be strong,
stand for yourself
you could be way happier without him or with someone else.
life is beautiful only if we make smart decisions.

[wenwen]

Thanks again...
I learn alot from u guys.
In 1 situation, after i had talk to him bout this, we doesn't hv any sex for a weeks. I wonder if will affect out relationships? I really love him & wish he can be my life partner.
It's look very confusing now.