[Elanor-Jane]

most of the guys ive been with that have had big or even monster size wangs have been terrible in bed. they sort of assume that having it exist has taken care of 95% of the task lol.
most guys that have a size bigger than average still think they have a small penis and this really annoys me. i dont think its so much of a female complaint as a male compaint. men are the ones that carry on about it. my ex was obsessed with it.

i find it really interesting as most mainstream porn is made for men but the sizes are usually big to massive. its theatre i guess.

some further downsides--really big ones can stretch you right out and your natural lube cant keep up, i dont like feeling like im giving birth lol not nice. --sometimes they cant stay hard, too much excess and not enough blood flow. ---most importantly for me, i like going down, its the first thing that happens when me and my partner go to bed as its the fastest thing to get me going, if its too big you cant deep throat very long (or at all) and u cant do it as long as it hurts your jaw.

also 5.5 isnt that small...

[Guest]

marcopoly,

Your post leaves me with an extremely uneasy feeling about you and your perspective of sex. You seem to be caught up in what you get out of sex. Tell me what your do for your wife.

I would never want any girl I am dating to have her mouth deformed. I want her to enjoy sex.

I do get the feeling that your wife submits to you for reasons other than concerns for herself.



Adios,

T

not at all, face deformed is a primal fantasy , I love my wife so much, and been together for 23 years.....and we are only 41 and 40....true, I have a high sexual drive, but she has too.....she is learning to relax and enjoy our relationship together....we are both in sync...

[Guest]

most of the guys ive been with that have had big or even monster size wangs have been terrible in bed. they sort of assume that having it exist has taken care of 95% of the task lol.
most guys that have a size bigger than average still think they have a small penis and this really annoys me. i dont think its so much of a female complaint as a male compaint. men are the ones that carry on about it. my ex was obsessed with it.

i find it really interesting as most mainstream porn is made for men but the sizes are usually big to massive. its theatre i guess.

some further downsides--really big ones can stretch you right out and your natural lube cant keep up, i dont like feeling like im giving birth lol not nice. --sometimes they cant stay hard, too much excess and not enough blood flow. ---most importantly for me, i like going down, its the first thing that happens when me and my partner go to bed as its the fastest thing to get me going, if its too big you cant deep throat very long (or at all) and u cant do it as long as it hurts your jaw.

also 5.5 isnt that small...

Thanks, since I am in good shape (175 pounds, 5.11 feet tall and muscular) my penis look rather long and hard, I don't have big balls and l keep it trim down (like my wife)....I love that she can take me in her behind completely (that's so pleasurable for me - after she relax, I can really but really pound that behind with a vibrator dildo en her vagina and that make her very horny (but I haven't been able to make her cum like this yet...close though), also, since she started trying deep throw techniques, that she is little by little developing skills and because I am not too big, her work in trying to have control over the gags reflexes will be less as once she gets used to my size then the rest is just develop even more skills.....what I am saying is that I am happy to feel confident and sexy when naked.....I am also proud to report that my wife has on average 2 orgasms a night, last night were 3 powerful one, follow by several mild ones....we use the magic wand (she loves it) - don't have to tell you how she attacks my penis after that.....she makes noises like she wants to swallow my whole piece...it is so exiting....anyhow, any advise on the g-spot massage beside the basics?

[nattynoona]

I don't know why so many women 'prefer' larger penis' anyway. I find I have much more fun and enjoyment from an average sized one.
It's big enough to make me feel satisfied, but does not cause any pain/discomfort when it is rough, or deep.
My boyfriend wishes he had a bigger penis, no matter how many times I tell him his is perfect, he won't believe me. Which does frustrate me somewhat.

[mrdee]

Your right on that EJ! Although I have been told I'm a little larger than normal but I dont hear her complain ever and she has no problem giving me oral. I'm 6.8 long and 5.5 around and I also dont think that it can take care of everything and I do everything to get her satisfied first. All that matters is that it works for the two of you!

[Guest]

I hate the stereotype that having a big penis makes you a "lazy or self absorbed" lover. Not all small guys try harder and not all big guys don't try at all.

Everything in life is a give-and-take. No one way is just best, just take what you have and like it, it's all you get. You can either like what you have, or dislike what you have, and liking things is always better. Except for meth.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Please feel free to continue this thread, bare in mind though, the OP has been banned, therefore reply in general...

I agree though, I wonder really if it's just such a "match" that makes the sex sooo good nothing to do size, with foreplay, with being an expert with anything, other than just into each other full stop in lust and love...

[jns]

I'm sure being in love with the other person has a lot to do with great sex, but I'm sure that technique, skill and innovation have a lot to do with it, also. No one thing is exclusively the overriding factor, but someone who has never been in love while having great sex has never reached the next higher peak.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Maybe another point then, with the word "love" is comfortability, totality and therefore not frightened to be yourself, do things that maybe you wouldn't otherwise contemplate or feel comfortable totally as alot of women I think hold back, in general with a "partner" which then as you say, also takes it to a higher level.

[Troop]

5.5" is perfectly average. But what about the guys that are below average, 4" or even less?