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    Just my 2 cents:

    I think JNS and CW make very wise point right above. I know this is easier said than done, but men need to reject the completely dysfunctional societal message that a bigger penis is better and realize that organizations that promote such thinking are almost always trying to manipulate men for profit (e.g. such as the size pills or techniques they sell). These organizations are trying to exploit male vulnerability to make profit off of men.

    Most studies outline that approximately 90% of men are in the same size range. Those that are an inch or two smaller or larger – one or two inches makes no difference to most women – other than a few women that have some sort of psychological weakness (size issue are almost always psychological, not physiological, and I would argue for those women who prefer a larger penis that these women underscore psychological weakness – such as low ego development).

    Likewise, pornography – which has not good quality to it and only harms others – go to great lengths to find some those men who are beyond the 90% percent and will after use digital trickery to make these look larger than they really are. Again, the pornography industry main goal is to exploit men and women to make money off of them.

    My main point – instead of comparing and wising to be bigger I think men (and women) need to see the organizations that promote bigger is better as fake and dysfunctional that are trying to manipulate people to make profit off to them.

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    • CHANDLERS WISH
      • Mar 2008
      • 22440

      So wish I could share another link Grrrrrrrrrr.

      Someone sent me an email today " You wont see ads like this again" to which I replied "thank god"...

      The ads, were of a variety of products, being sold, coca cola was one of them, "never too young to enjoy" and a mother giving it to a baby, another was of "the more she cleans, the happier she is make sure she takes her vitamins" with a woman in the 50's in her little apron, smiling away, with the man handing her the vitamins....Then there was, lol's... A list of items for sale, hoovers, toasters, "I'd bet she'd love one of these for Christmas, make her smile, go one buy her one"...

      Every single ad, bar the baby, was targeted at women doing chores and loving them, and wanting soooo much to have the latest hoover, or appliance to keep that little home cleaner...yay...

      Okay rant over, just saying I agree with organizations promotions are out of line, in may instances.
      Last edited by CHANDLERS WISH; 11-02-2011, 03:07 PM. Reason: repeated a remark already posted previous page
      PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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      • CHANDLERS WISH
        • Mar 2008
        • 22440

        Originally posted by Troop
        5.5" is perfectly average. But what about the guys that are below average, 4" or even less?
        What about them?

        Love conquers all, it's not the size it's how you use it, confidence gets you everywhere in life, a woman adjusts to a man's size, don't think I need to go on.
        PUT A LITTLE 'LIKE' IN MY SOUL!

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        • Troop
          Member
          • Jan 2008
          • 21

          Sorry, but I don't believe that. I wish love DID conquer all, but in my experience it just doesn't. A lot of people say that size doesn't matter, but they're referring to average, not BELOW average.

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          • lizzardb63
            Veteran Member
            • Aug 2010
            • 1493

            Above average isn't the greatest either Troop. My fiance is 9 1/2 inches long and has a lot of girth... now the first time I had sex with him going from my ex who was 7 inches long to him it was like WOAH WOAH WOAH...wait just one minute...THAT'S supposed to fit in there?! but the more we had sex the more I got used to it. It isn't the size that makes sex good, its the bond, experience, and the love you share with each other that make it more. I feel the love that my fiance is putting forth and the effort which makes me want him more and makes it even better for me and I try to show the same effort to him. Most women don't orgasm from penetration of the penis alone anyway...so figure out what your woman wants and likes and you can give that to her in a variety of ways.

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            • lizzardb63
              Veteran Member
              • Aug 2010
              • 1493

              [QUOTE=SoCoKen;298859]I hate the stereotype that having a big penis makes you a "lazy or self absorbed" lover. Not all small guys try harder and not all big guys don't try at all.

              Completely agree. As I stated, my fiance is one of the large ones...but he cares how I feel during sex and wants to please me more than any other guy I've been with. SIZE DOESN'T MATTER, espcially when it comes to what kind of lover you are.

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              • Guest

                Originally posted by Troop
                Sorry, but I don't believe that. I wish love DID conquer all, but in my experience it just doesn't. A lot of people say that size doesn't matter, but they're referring to average, not BELOW average.
                Troop:

                May I ask where you are getting your information from. If I may, where are you getting your information from that a 4.5 inch penis is "less than" and larger ones are better?

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                • cathygirl
                  Senior Member
                  • Dec 2010
                  • 108

                  I've never measured my hubby, but he's on the average to smaller size and I'm very glad. While anal sex is not an all-the-time thing for us, we do that on occassion because he likes it and I could not do it if he was any larger. There is nothing that would be any better if he were larger that I can think of. We both like giving oral and at the same time quite often. Size sure doesn't matter there, and as far as intercourse, I don't think longer would be any better there either. I don't get the obsession with it, to tell you the truth.

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                  • Troop
                    Member
                    • Jan 2008
                    • 21

                    A 4" penis IS less than average. 7" is pretty big to begin with and then going to more than 9"? And it's better to have too much than not enough. I've been cheated on and hurt repeatedly directly because of my small size. It wasn't alluded to, they told me straight to my face.

                    And if size didn't matter, then it wouldn't ever be brought up in movies, television shows, music, and everywhere else. The obsession comes from being made to feel like less of a man because I'm not even average, let alone 7" or more.

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                    • ItsASecret
                      APRIL 2011 POSTER OF THE MONTH
                      • Apr 2009
                      • 3721

                      A 4" penis IS less than average. 7" is pretty big to begin with and then going to more than 9"? And it's better to have too much than not enough. I've been cheated on and hurt repeatedly directly because of my small size. It wasn't alluded to, they told me straight to my face.
                      The simple answer to that is there are morons in this world. I apologize if this offends you or anyone else because maybe you liked those women for your own reasons, but I am simply speaking as a woman saying that utterances such as "you are too small" or cheating because of a man's size is absolutely pathetic. There are people that live by the bigger is better complex and treat people the way you have been treated and to me, in my opinion, they are morons. It hurts to have something like that said to you and no one should have things like that done or said to them. I know what it is like to be compared, I have very small breasts and I have overheard the countless conversations of guys saying they would never be with a chick who did not have big boobs. It hurts. I know those women hurt you but those girls are not real women. Real women do not care about the size of a penis just like a real man does not care about the size of a woman's boobs.
                      There are those who believe that dictionaries should not merely reflect the times but also protect English from the mindless assaults of the trendy.

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