Hi all,
I'm pretty sure this is not normal, but am I the only one, and any suggestions ?
I'm now 27, for as long as I can remember I get an instant erection whenever I see a woman's cleavage in public, regardless of the location or the woman's age/looks etc.
But it gets worse, after about 20 seconds my penis starts to throb and flex uncontrollably (the point of no return), after another few seconds I ejaculate.
The only way to prevent this is to remove myself from the situation as soon as I see cleavage, it's not enough to look away, I have to leave the room or go round the corner so she is out of sight.
This doesn't happen if I look at a woman's cleavage on TV, or on the computer, or a magazine or billboard, only if it's a woman in the flesh.
For now I take the precaution of wearing a condom whenever I'm out in public where I might encounter a 'cleavage', this catches the spillage, but still doesn't hide the flagpole effect of an unwanted public erection.
Sometimes I try avoid it by masturbating in a toilet immediately before walking into a crowded shopping centre or something, but it still happens just as fiercely, just the ejaculation is minimal if I've just masturbated.
Going to the beach is completely out of the question for me!
Anyone ever hear of this happening before ?
I do have one idea that it might've started as a delayed result of some minor 'abuse' when I was about 13, although I don't remember feeling abused, I considered myself quite privileged when my friends mom would 'play' with me and she sometimes masturbated me until cum with her breasts.
I've never been in a relationship, and am really concerned that this would greatly affect my ability to keep a girlfriend anyhow.
I'm too embarrassed to discuss with a doctor or anything, but have the hope the problem will subside.
I'm pretty sure this is not normal, but am I the only one, and any suggestions ?
I'm now 27, for as long as I can remember I get an instant erection whenever I see a woman's cleavage in public, regardless of the location or the woman's age/looks etc.
But it gets worse, after about 20 seconds my penis starts to throb and flex uncontrollably (the point of no return), after another few seconds I ejaculate.
The only way to prevent this is to remove myself from the situation as soon as I see cleavage, it's not enough to look away, I have to leave the room or go round the corner so she is out of sight.
This doesn't happen if I look at a woman's cleavage on TV, or on the computer, or a magazine or billboard, only if it's a woman in the flesh.
For now I take the precaution of wearing a condom whenever I'm out in public where I might encounter a 'cleavage', this catches the spillage, but still doesn't hide the flagpole effect of an unwanted public erection.
Sometimes I try avoid it by masturbating in a toilet immediately before walking into a crowded shopping centre or something, but it still happens just as fiercely, just the ejaculation is minimal if I've just masturbated.
Going to the beach is completely out of the question for me!
Anyone ever hear of this happening before ?
I do have one idea that it might've started as a delayed result of some minor 'abuse' when I was about 13, although I don't remember feeling abused, I considered myself quite privileged when my friends mom would 'play' with me and she sometimes masturbated me until cum with her breasts.
I've never been in a relationship, and am really concerned that this would greatly affect my ability to keep a girlfriend anyhow.
I'm too embarrassed to discuss with a doctor or anything, but have the hope the problem will subside.
I would say embarrassed, that the question of "has it happened to anyone else not", does not belong to a Women's Health Forum because we wouldn't know.
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