[GoodGuy]

By the way, is anyone else uncomfortable with the automatic colored bold double underlining of words outside our control? It kind of makes it look like the author is emphasizing certain words and it is totally not.

[GoodGuy]

It depends on what he eats through the day if I will or not, or if I feel like doing it... Sometimes my stomach isn't feeling really good so I know I'll vomit if I do it. The salty taste makes me nauseous.

If I'm reading this correctly: Good for you(!), in that you're willing to do it when you possibly can. That is a wonderful place to be, and something to be admired.

[GoodGuy]

Okay. I don't know if I'm in a nit-picky mood but... I don't agree with this and think it is taking a step backward. You're basically saying a woman should just do whatever, because her partner finds it important?

No, I'm saying that either partner should do whatever they can that is important to the other. Or at least make that the focus.

I think "it has to be ok for both of us" is way more appropriate of an answer.

Semen is often times unpleasant, that's the bottom line. What do you expect, for women's taste buds to magically change?

You've fallen entirely to what I would call cart-before-the-horse thinking. Let's try to reverse the attitude a little by looking at the underpinnings here: It's Important. If It's Important (note the caps), then THAT'S the bottom line. Do you expect THAT to magically change?

The attitude shift has to be away from:

"I don't find it pleasant, so no way."

to

"I don't find it pleasant, but others have learned, so I will try and try because my partner finds it so important."

If, in reverse, it is so incredibly important for you to avoid something that is incredibly important for your man, then you have set yourself up for disaster.

Don't try to oversimplify this with thoughts of "it's a partnership, both should be caring." Of course, that only makes my point stronger.

Men are half the planet. What they find important cannot be simply overlooked without trying everything you can to solve the need.

[DSemcho]

It depends on what he eats through the day if I will or not, or if I feel like doing it... Sometimes my stomach isn't feeling really good so I know I'll vomit if I do it. The salty taste makes me nauseous.

[Mes T]

I think that in general there needs to be a shift from a common woman's reaction "it has to be ok for us both" to "how do I make it ok for me because it is so important".

Okay. I don't know if I'm in a nit-picky mood but... I don't agree with this and think it is taking a step backward. You're basically saying a woman should just do whatever, because her partner finds it important? I think "it has to be ok for both of us" is way more appropriate of an answer.

Semen is often times unpleasant, that's the bottom line. What do you expect, for women's taste buds to magically change?

If I misread your post then I apologize, really, but that's how it came off to me.

I would also appreciate a brief explanation of the differences between a "woman's" reaction versus a "man's" reaction toward sex. What about the number of women who post on here complaining that their partners cannot give them orgasms? Does that really compare with a woman not wanting to swallow....?

I don't know. I'm just suddenly feeling very odd about this thread.

[GoodGuy]

I do it for my husband because i love him and we do things for each other that makes us happy. its not a chore or a task to do things for the ones you love.

AWESOME.

Many people could learn much from this.

[sheriac5]

I do it for my husband because i love him and we do things for each other that makes us happy. its not a chore or a task to do things for the ones you love.

[GoodGuy]

Hm, I enjoy swallowing my fiances semen, I do HATE the taste though! But I love swallowing it because I know he really enjoys it and turns both of us on. Its a compromise basically because Im sure theres things he does for me that he may not enjoy...

But I think, men shouldnt be so pushy about it.

I'm glad that you spoke up about the difference between liking the taste and liking the action. It's a huge difference in all cases.

Take it from a man's perspective. A woman was turned on transferring her "wetness" to a spoon and watching me put it in my mouth and swallowing. Did I like the taste per se? No. Was I turned on beyond belief? Yep. In fact, I think it may have been my idea.

As far as men being so pushy about it, *there* I see an attitude shift needed in general (not you specifically, but it's a common theme). This need for men did not form in a vacuum ladies....it *is* VERY important to most of us. The idea that you would want me so much that you need me inside you (to incorporate into your body) is incredible. And the closeness from knowing that you ingest this and form your own cells (albeit very very slightly) from it is beyond measure.

IN FACT, even though the taste was not the desired effect, I've had 3 girlfriends who have thought me ejaculating in their drinks or on their food was among the most amazing things ever.

Sex is so often more about the idea of things, and what the action means, than the action itself.

I think that in general there needs to be a shift from a common woman's reaction "it has to be ok for us both" to "how do I make it ok for me because it is so important".

I still dont like to swallow it,
I love to give him head and i love when he comes in my mouth, sometimes i swallow but its so i dont gag or dribble, the rest of the time i spit it out. Either way he loves it when i give him head, and the rest doesnt seem to matter to him. But if it were something that he told me he really wanted, i would do it.

My wife still won't do it, but she shows a lot of excitement and try to deep throw me.....as well as she does a very nice job on my balls and shaft....she is a very good wife.....I hope some day, I get it....we'll see, it has to be in her own terms....and after a long time of me not mentioning it...

Good for you to try new things...

[Darling]

I still dont like to swallow it,
I love to give him head and i love when he comes in my mouth, sometimes i swallow but its so i dont gag or dribble, the rest of the time i spit it out. Either way he loves it when i give him head, and the rest doesnt seem to matter to him. But if it were something that he told me he really wanted, i would do it.