[JonDoe]

I've been with women, including my wife, that say "Eww! No way!! Never!!!", but will take a shot of tequila, lick the salt and suck a lemon wedge. Tequlia is absolutely an acquired taste that plenty of people are willing to master when celebrating with friends.

Perhaps the difference is they see friends taking shots and having fun, so they want to join the fun, but have been brainwashed into thinking men are perverse, and giving head is a dirty, nasty act.

In my opinion, if a wife is not willing to try to master oral, including occasionally swallowing for her husband, then perhaps she is a selfish lover. Unfortunately, my experience has been with women that love for me to give them oral, but aren't willing to return the favor.

[Mbkk44]

My wife still won't do it, but she shows a lot of excitement and try to deep throw me.....as well as she does a very nice job on my balls and shaft....she is a very good wife.....I hope some day, I get it....we'll see, it has to be in her own terms....and after a long time of me not mentioning it...

Good for you to try new things...

This is how I am, I have had a lady give me the full BJ a few times before I was married and I loved it, wish my wife would , but don't ask and accept the good BJ she gives as foreplay , I feel she will one day but she will spit it out , however she will have to be so excited that she forgets I am about to come, I also don't want to risk losing the type of BJ she gives me now.

[angelstrawberry]

I love swallowing. Dont always love the taste though and sometimes it can make my stomach feel nauseous. The hard thing would be to swallow a guy that cums large loads. I have a guy now that taste good though, kind of sweet. Maybe eat some pineapple and she will lile the taste and be more willing

[GoodGuy]

I still find it interesting when a woman is grossed out by semen. I mean I can understand it on one level, but at the same time what about her fluids and discharges. I mean what if we freaked out or thought of her as dirty for either her natural, regular discharges, or her monthy vistor, or even those fluids which we happen to be the cause of? My wife and I once had this discussion. She honestly had never considered it from that point of view. A long time ago I was not allowed to finish anywhere other than vaginally. I had asked her how she would feel if I stopped oral everytime she was about to climax( not that I ever did). That's illustration actually helped more than anything. She now actually enjoys making me achieve orgasm through oral or manual stimulation now. She has become proud of her skills so to speak. Not that she swallows all that often, but she has stopped treating me like I'm dirty just because I orgasmed. Just somethin to think about.

This was incredibly an well thought out reply. Thanks.

[DSemcho]

Lanabear - I agree with you about your guy cuming on your body - I love it to!

[ska1331]

I still find it interesting when a woman is grossed out by semen. I mean I can understand it on one level, but at the same time what about her fluids and discharges. I mean what if we freaked out or thought of her as dirty for either her natural, regular discharges, or her monthy vistor, or even those fluids which we happen to be the cause of? My wife and I once had this discussion. She honestly had never considered it from that point of view. A long time ago I was not allowed to finish anywhere other than vaginally. I had asked her how she would feel if I stopped oral everytime she was about to climax( not that I ever did). That's illustration actually helped more than anything. She now actually enjoys making me achieve orgasm through oral or manual stimulation now. She has become proud of her skills so to speak. Not that she swallows all that often, but she has stopped treating me like I'm dirty just because I orgasmed. Just somethin to think about.

[ItsASecret]

I still find it insanely hot to let him cum on me, wherever. Referencing her comment about not wanting it anywhere on her body. I don't know, that is just losing a bunch of intimacy, IMO. I'd be all butt hurt if my hubby freaked out whenever I squirted on him, so it helps that I find his "love juice" lol, highly highly arousing.

Personally I am not insanely aroused by it but at the same time I am not insanely turned off by it. I know I am not mortified by having it on me though. Since I have the thick, chunky, pungent amounts to handle I will not let him finish in my mouth but he is free to finish on my body which I think is a fair compromise as long as it is not up my nose, in my eyeball(s), or in my hair lol.

[LanaBear]

Imagine thick, chunky, very salty, very chlorine pungent, warm, excessive amounts lol.

LOL - far enough, but even if I wasn't one for swallowing, I still find it insanely hot to let him cum on me, wherever. Referencing her comment about not wanting it anywhere on her body. I don't know, that is just losing a bunch of intimacy, IMO. I'd be all butt hurt if my hubby freaked out whenever I squirted on him, so it helps that I find his "love juice" lol, highly highly arousing.

[DSemcho]

ok excessive amounts and swallowing no....... Like I've stated previously, I only do it when I know my stomach can handle it.... I'll let him cum in my mouth anytime but swallowing takes mental will power when it's super salty on my part...

[tinyclitt]

I've seen the polls on many different sites and when the question is asked if you like swallowing or not, the overwhelming response is always an enthusiastic yes by a wide margin. I think there's a minority around here who dismiss it out of hand without giving it a fair shake and that's fine. In fact, the more who claim not to like it the better. Just leaves more good men for us gals who do like it. Or it would, if I wasn't married.