[Little]

I have removed the judgmental post and all the ones referencing it. In the future, if anyone feels that a post is out of line, please report it to the moderators before responding. I hope to have created a clean slate for the OP to return and have her questions answered.

MegJack, this guy sounds like he's very immature. Not the kind of guy you want to spend much time around or have anything more than a cursory connection with. It's just poop. Sure, it's a little nasty and definitely not sterile - it's POOP! But if he wants to put it in the back door, he should be prepared that real anuses have POOP in them. Go figure!

[asiangrace]

Oh my word, this guy needs to grow up!! seriously. So sorry that happened to you, girlie! This is completely normal. It has happened to me before too. Maybe he needs to take something up the butt too and see how it feels and what can happen.

[Mes T]

lol I agree with all you guys. Wait hanggg on I've solved it - he's one of those dudes who believes girls don't use the bathroom, right? That we're made of flowers on the inside instead of intestines?

There's no way to know his honest reasons for ending it, but I have a hunch that he wasn't all that into the relationship in the first place. I think it's likely he would have ended it the next day, poop or no poop.

[Needahand]

I'm a guy and I agree with what seems to be the consensus here...he is really, really immature if this is any kind of issue for him.

[magsnannie69]

Atleast it was while u were having anal sex and not vaginal sex.. i have been having a problem too with pooping while having vaginal sex!!! it is the most embarrassing thing anyone could experience!!! my partner doesn't seem to mind as much as i obviously do but it doesn't help!! not sure if i need to post this seperately but added here because it is my problem of the day and it relates in some way to yours !
I can see why the bloke freaked out..i think i would if my partner started ****ting himself while we had sex..lol. it's funny too i guess. don't take it personally though..it's not like its a choice!!!!

[jns]

Atleast it was while u were having anal sex and not vaginal sex.. i have been having a problem too with pooping while having vaginal sex!!! it is the most embarrassing thing anyone could experience!!! my partner doesn't seem to mind as much as i obviously do but it doesn't help!! not sure if i need to post this seperately but added here because it is my problem of the day and it relates in some way to yours !
I can see why the bloke freaked out..i think i would if my partner started ****ting himself while we had sex..lol. it's funny too i guess. don't take it personally though..it's not like its a choice!!!!

Probably the action of the sex stimulates your bowels. Maybe a doctor could prescribe something mild to stop that. Or you could make sure you don't have to go before having sex. Or take an enema before sex. Do you like to take a warm bath or shower before sex? Either could cause bowel movements as could something warm on your stomach. Maybe something cold, even a cold shower or bath could keep that from happening.