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  • Goosey
    Member
    • Oct 2011
    • 85

    No woman is the same. The sopping wet you talk about still happens. But it doesn't take hours. In fact, I don't have hours to take. Personally if it took 5 hours, I probably wouldn't do it, as I don't always have 5 hours to spare.

    To make someone think that it will take hours upon hours to orgasm is just false. For me, it make take an hour. Or a min. Depends. Every girl is different, and being relaxed and trying different things is best. So that you can figure out what works best for you. Maybe its hours of foreplay, maybe its anal stimulation while having sex, maybe its using toys, maybe its talking dirty, maybe its sex in a dofferent position than before.

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    • Little_Man_in_the_Boat
      Veteran Member
      • Dec 2008
      • 227

      No woman is the same. The sopping wet you talk about still happens. But it doesn't take hours. In fact, I don't have hours to take. Personally if it took 5 hours, I probably wouldn't do it, as I don't always have 5 hours to spare.

      Well thats true in some ways but there are some similarities.

      If you build up some trust and love and passion with a women over time and then finally kiss her around the neck and on the lips in a gentle and passionate way it works on all women. In that way women are mostly the same.

      Its only the negative programming you have to get through and after 5 hours or whatever it takes even those self negative doubt subsides with the carthartic affect of caressing a womens body until finally orgasm is innevitable.

      She will finally let go and the overwhelming pleasure will break through and unleash her orgasm.

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      • Goosey
        Member
        • Oct 2011
        • 85

        Honestly as long as she can relax herself, she should be fine.

        I can honestly not imagine a 5 hour forplay I couldn't holf out that long.

        Also, trying doing things on your own to figure out what you like.

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        • Little_Man_in_the_Boat
          Veteran Member
          • Dec 2008
          • 227

          Well your right it depends on the girl and the guy I guess, what his technique is like, how she is feeling (if she is tired well of course your not going to feel like it).

          Basically what I am saying is it took me or US many hours to achieve a real powerful orgasm, I have been with another women that where mini orgasms without such intensity.

          It was only the one that was a real humdinger.

          I think this is also part of the problem we dont have enough time for the greatest pleasures.

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          • Goosey
            Member
            • Oct 2011
            • 85

            I can understand that. I know for myself, its different (after a specific amount of time, I am either too tired or my mind starts running around at things I really need to get done and what not). But some girls may love that.

            But yeah, you can definitely try it. When nothing seems to work, you need to try everything.

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