[jns]

jns thanks for the in detail reply, i think that the fact you mentioned the emotional connection is somthing i forgot too to do also, there is nothing like making love with some one you love and care about.

I said about scents becoming intoxicating for a reason. Years later you can smell the same scents and it will take you back to that time. It is like what Shad Helmstetter said about snapping of the fingers in his story about the lesson from Uncle Eli (google [Shad Helmstetter snap fingers mathieu] and go to the mathieu hit, there is actually a more complete version at plchurch if you remove the "mathieu": I saw him give live speeches several times and they contained that story: its also in his book, "Network of Champions").

[jns]

I would have preferred that this thread was under ask men as I think it would have gotten more people interested.

[hipsterchick]

my boyfriend said he feels like he's just losing all of his energy and letting everything go...

[jibjabwin]

Well, at first when I'm nearing orgasm my toes curl, I start breathing harder, my heart begins to race and most noticeably it feels like my cum is building up preparing to be launched out. It feels like my penis gets more and more volatile and ready to explode the closer I get to ejaculating. The sensations go from intense then go up and up and up and UP to a peak. My penis gets really hard, and feels really tight and sensitive. Then.....boom. The real orgasm starts, intense waves of pleasure when I'm cumming. Each spurt comes after a very intense uncontrollable clenching of the PC muscle. This muscle can contract several times, spurting several streams out, each time is extremely pleasureable, eyes roll back in the head pleasure. After the main contractions are done, sometimes I get smaller trembling like contractions that are also very pleasureable.. When it's all over, it feels like I've been drained, my balls feel drained and I'm exhausted.

[jibjabwin]

Well, at first when I'm nearing orgasm my toes curl, I start breathing harder, my heart begins to race and most noticeably it feels like my cum is building up preparing to be launched out. It feels like my penis gets more and more volatile and ready to explode the closer I get to ejaculating. The sensations go from intense then go up and up and up and UP to a peak. My penis gets really hard, and feels really tight and sensitive. Then.....boom. The real orgasm starts, intense waves of pleasure when I'm cumming. Each spurt comes after a very intense uncontrollable clenching of the PC muscle. This muscle can contract several times, spurting several streams out, each time is extremely pleasureable, eyes roll back in the head pleasure. After the main contractions are done, sometimes I get smaller trembling like contractions that are also very pleasureable.. When it's all over, it feels like I've been drained, my balls feel drained and I'm exhausted.

Oh, hope I didn't gross anyone out! I tried to explain it well..

[MVee]

this makes me want to be a guy HAHAHAHAHA

[happywifeisahappyhome]

an orgasm on our end is almost like losing complete control for some of the more intense ones you can feel just about every muscle tense up and your whole body gets involved in the event, when you're just about to reach climax its almost impossible without practice to push yourself through past the point of no return, and once its happening it feels like nothing can stop it, usually after this we feel almost completely drained (which explains our roll over and fall asleep issue) sometimes we get lucky and can go a couple rounds with maybe a 20-30 minute recharge time which we can usually fill with foreplay, bathroom break, something like that but usually its a pretty physically taxing experience.

Not that this analogy will relate to anything for the females (not being sexist but there doesnt usually seem to be an interest in guns from women) but comparing our orgasm to a female orgasm is like comparing one of the large deck guns on the naval ships to a small fully automatic rifle. It takes us a long time to reload and the result is a big bang, and (correct me if im wrong) in the female/small rifle sense it takes a very short time to reload and be ready again, with a much smaller end result.

hopefully that makes sense but as far as quick responses go as im passing out on my keyboard that will have to do atleast until tomorrow

[Ratty]

It annoys me sometimes when I see people saying things like "Oh, women's orgasms are much longer and more intense than men's orgasms" or some other orgasmic gender-superiority piffle. The fact is, men's and women's orgasms are different - not better or worse than one or the other - just different.

Yes I know that scientific study has determned that the female orgasm typically lasts between 20 to 30 seconds whereas the typical male orgasm lasts only 2 to 5 seconds in comparison. And yes, I also know that many studies have concluded that female orgasms are often felt throughout the whole body whereas male orgasms are felt locally in the groin area. But it is my belief that men's and women's brains are neurologically wired up to derive pleasure from different types of orgasms.

For instance, if a woman were to experience a male orgasm she would prbably think to herself "well, that felt really nice but I only really felt it between my legs and it was all over so quickly - and now I have to clean up all this mess, gross!"
Whereas if a man was to experience a female orgasm he may think to himself "well, that felt really nice and it lasted ages but it just faded out without the explosive conclusion I'm used to - oh well, at least I don't have to get the tissues out!"
So basically, an orgasm that would drive a woman to the very peak of pleasure probably wouldn't have the same effect on a man. And vice versa.

What's also important to bear in mind is that different people experience orgasms differently depending on a range of factors such as level of arousal, time of day, time of month, mood, time since last orgasm etc. etc. My own personal experience is that if I have a quick orgasm via masturbation or intercourse it is usually over pretty quickly and can sometimes be a little underwhelming. Whereas if I take my time and build up slowly to just before the point at which I ejaculate and then just keep myself there (a technique called 'edging' for anyone who hasn't heard of it before) the resulting orgasm will be felt throughout my entire body, will last longer (sometimes as much as 10 seconds and more) and I also seem to ejaculate more semen as a result. For me, a good orgasm feels like a nuclear bomb going off between my legs. A great orgasm feels like a million tiny fingers tickling over every inch of skin on my body in several quick waves, then a nuclear bomb going off between my legs. But that's just me - it could be completely different for the guy next door.

When all is said and done, both male and female orgasms have an upside and a downside - female orgasms may last longer but they are comparatively much harder (and can take much longer) to acheive. Male orgasms are shorter but are far easier to acheive (and sometimes don't even require you to have an erection) and a man is virtually guaranteed to have one every time with apparent ease. As long as the orgasm you get makes you happy who cares if the woman next door's is longer - it might be less intense than yours. Or who cares if the man sitting next to you ejaculates a pint of cum every time - yours might last way longer than his. And as long as you can give your partner the orgasm that satisfies him/her, does it really matter if one lasts longer than the other?

[Mitchel1870]

It starts with a vibration like feeling in my testes (any manipulation or touching of them at the time of orgasm it awesome). It feels like my body is pulling up the testes and starts as a rhythmic pulsing (pumping) in my groin and upper legs. It starts slow then builds. I would guess this is all of the semen being mixed up inside, I swear I can feel it being pulled up into my body before it is expelled. Its hard to concentrate on anything, there is a point at which it feels like a pressure build up then 4 or 5 massive pulses at which time the whole body tenses up. My upper thighs tense and release repeatedly, there is no way to stop it. If in a submissive position I will stop breathing, if in a dominant position I actually tense up and don't thrust as much (which sucks because 99% of the time that is how it goes), its like you can't concentrate on orgasm and thrusting at the same time. If I am standing at the time I almost fall over, its like everything goes off line or shuts down. The best is when it is out of your control (laying on back with female on top or giving HJ, never had BJ but sure that would feel as awesome). Any touching to the penis is almost unbearable and my wife seems to get stop when I stop breathing (though I really want her to continue for about another 30 seconds). Afterwards my legs are very weak (walking, running or driving is very difficult) and I tend to be so exhausted I go to sleep (that could be from the 30-40 minutes of being on top it takes for her to release). I could fall asleep in 2 minutes no problem.

[venom690]

Many of us chicks look at you men in awe after you have had an orgasm , mostly because you fall asleep instantly or purr almost like a cat and scream so loudly and which in turn makes us feel like pornstars and makes us feel like we did a good job well done, I am curious as to what it must feel like phyically it looks realy good lol, for me and i dont know if many women feel the same the feeling starts in the stomach then runs down into my ''who who'' before an intense blissful feeling rushes all through my body and i sweat and my head feels like its going to blow off in lusty feelings. now that's a woman s orgasm, well mine, each one is different now can some guy tell me what they feel lol??

It is hard to explain now that I am used to it .


I can say this:

you feel like every single muscle on your body tenses up ,most of the pleasure comes from the testicles , yes those those things that hang and are very sensitive to pain ? those , but it can be felt through the whole body , the only way I can explain it to you is this , have you ever hit your funny bone on a side of a table and the pain transfers all over your body ? it really only hurts there but your whole body feels it , or when you drink something cold and you get that pain on your head ? the pain really comes from the back of your throat or stomach but you can feel it on your head , well it is the same principle , the sensation is coming from the testicles but your whole body feels it .

When the brain sends the signal to finish it is very clear , the most sensitive part of the penis is the head , and your awareness of that part of the body becomes very heightened were at the beginning of the act you could rub fast and just kinda feel good , now even the smallest movement sends a signal with an urge to finish , if you move even one inch the pulsating starts ,the pulsating feels compared to a throbbing pain , but on your funny bone , but instead that throbbing is pleasurable , if you can describe pleasure by "sharp" or "deep" (sharp being pinched and deep like when you twist a muscle on your neck) it would be deep , every pulsation brings deep pleasure that starts a "feel good" feeling , for women to understand better the pleasure comes from the internal "ducts" contracting as they start carrying the semen from testicles through a long tube to through the ureta and finally through the penis ,to move the fluid the tubes have to contract and release kind of as if you want to push water through a straw with your fingers , every time it contracts the body sends a signal to your brain of strong pleasure that is felt through the whole body (think funny bone) as the semen moves closer to the exit the pleasure builds up were the brain starts losing perception on what is around you it is almost that all it matters now is your penis and were is at , someone could be coming at you with a gun or a knife and nothing would matter , for those 5 seconds all it matters is that feeling that is taking over your whole brain and it urging you to get it over with and deliver it , the mind numbing experience can only be compared to when you wake up in the mornings after a long sleep were you can't concentrate ... if you chose to slow down and prolong it the ejaculation slows down too , it is almost as it needs the friction to keep the semen moving through the penis , but you can't stop it , if you move , the feeling gets stronger , if you stop completely it may withdraw back a bit , it is almost as if the body is making sure that the "load" ends up were it is supposed to and not on the floor by accidentally moving out or something , the more you resist and slow down the more your brain takes over by sending stronger and stronger pleasure to urge to finish to the point were you don't care and just push on forward(think holding your breath until your body takes over and breathes for you) , when it happens you feel uncontrollable contractions of your penis and from inside , the same feeling that you get when you hold your pee , but this time you can't control it and squeezes and releases , squeezes and releases with every squeeze and release you can feel the sensation increasing and if you pay attention you can feel the semen move inside you through the tube the closer it get's to more intense the feeling gets, pumping speed instinctively slows downs during this process ,and as it comes out you can feel the inside of your partner getting more slippery and warm , and the tip of your penis becomes very sensitive so as you are shooting out your stuff everything that comes out through the tip it burns in a good way as if it is made out of hot lava but without burning during this phase you can feel every thing inside the girl , ridges , bumps anything..you could ask the guy to stop and he would not care until it is over , after this there is a 7 second period were you come down rapidly , everything in your surroundings comes back and the realization of what you just did sinks in , if it is someone you love it is a good thing , but if the girl is someone you don't like or don't even know then some guilt my sink in , all common sense returns thoughts like "what if she get's pregnant" or "what if she has an STD " comes to mind , (not if it is someone you love but you get the picture) then as your hearth rate comes down you have a strong feeling to go to sleep for a few minutes , maybe for the lack of blood on your brain , who knows.

Well there you go , as detailed as you will ever hear it.