[Hopeless Dork]

Well then Sara, I guess my question is: What or why are you asking about this? When you follow up with a post about being watched, first by one person, then another, then another.. it serves to reason that the reader might think its not a real question being asked (especially when you ignore all reasonable responses and giggle them off like you don't see a problem with being watched). If you don't see a problem with being watched in appropriately, why post about it?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Not sure if se6ual predators exist in Australia,

Good golly Ms Molly, you sound as if you are not much older than your 14 year old neighbour, to believe or even make such a Statement.

You live near a nudest beach, swim naked in a pool, and your "husband" would ruff up any guy that touched you, put your clothes on..Or, build a higher secure fence, I can go topless at my house, in my pool cause it's fenced off from prying eyes...

Naked beaches still have perves sitting up the top.

How can this be this boys fault?

And, you expect the Father to tell you to cover up? Why, men are men...

Your "husband" should be the one telling you to do that, even though it's your back yard, if others can see easily you naked, you are asking for trouble, he could bring 5 of his mates over, and anything can happen...

I'm beginning to even wonder if any of this is real......

Sigh

[LanaBear]

Not sure if se6ual predators exist in Australia, i heard the term in usa movies before. We live near a clothing optional beach so i got use to not wearing things in the pool too. It makes tans so much better. I know it sounds wrong but his dad saw me nude when he gardened and said hi and he didnt tell me to cover up so it never came to mind as a problem i guess.

Huh, funny, because I Googled 'Sexual Predators Australia' and I got LOTS of hits back, even a registry in which over 12,000 sex offenders and sex predators were registered on so you know if there are any living in your vicinity. We have the same in the US. It doesn't matter if you live next to a clothing optional beach, so I'm not sure where you are going with that. I mean, does that mean you can go to the grocery store with no clothes because living next to a clothing optional beach gives you the right?

Obviously, like HD said, you seem to see no problem with any of this and constantly give a "giggle" and somewhat adolescent excuse as to why your behavior and the behavior of the KID, his DAD and your husband are all justified. So, not really sure what kind of response you are looking for from us.

Good Golly Ms MOLLY(hart) indeed!

[CHANDLERS WISH]

giggles at the words in-deed.

Man now google that over there, surely it's double?

[Guest]

Well then Sara, I guess my question is: What or why are you asking about this? When you follow up with a post about being watched, first by one person, then another, then another.. it serves to reason that the reader might think its not a real question being asked (especially when you ignore all reasonable responses and giggle them off like you don't see a problem with being watched). If you don't see a problem with being watched in appropriately, why post about it?

I posted for advice which I got from thecatlady-

To be honest, the thought of an adult man beating up a 14 year old kid is more disturbing to me than the whole nightie issue. A 14 year old boy hanging around watching you swim is not something you should put up with either, though. Next time you see him at your fence, say hi and ask him how he's doing, and end the conversation there. If he doesn't go away, say something like, "Is there something I can help you with?" That's a major hint to go away. If he doesn't take it, you may have to ask him specifically to leave. If you find him again at your fence (especially if he's sneaking around, looking at you through the cracks), say you would like to swim in peace, and threaten to call the police if he does it again.

Good golly Ms Molly, you sound as if you are not much older than your 14 year old neighbour, to believe or even make such a Statement.

You live near a nudest beach, swim naked in a pool, and your "husband" would ruff up any guy that touched you, put your clothes on..Or, build a higher secure fence, I can go topless at my house, in my pool cause it's fenced off from prying eyes...

Naked beaches still have perves sitting up the top.

How can this be this boys fault?

And, you expect the Father to tell you to cover up? Why, men are men...

Your "husband" should be the one telling you to do that, even though it's your back yard, if others can see easily you naked, you are asking for trouble, he could bring 5 of his mates over, and anything can happen...

I'm beginning to even wonder if any of this is real......

Sigh

i wonder if your real....
I talked to nudists and they said its ok to be nude in your backyard so I don't see the problem. I only had a probllem that he did that thing to my nightie and that he spies on me. But thecatlady told me what to say if he spies again. Spying is wrong even if the person being spied on has clothes on!

Huh, funny, because I Googled 'Sexual Predators Australia' and I got LOTS of hits back, even a registry in which over 12,000 sex offenders and sex predators were registered on so you know if there are any living in your vicinity. We have the same in the US. It doesn't matter if you live next to a clothing optional beach, so I'm not sure where you are going with that. I mean, does that mean you can go to the grocery store with no clothes because living next to a clothing optional beach gives you the right?

Obviously, like HD said, you seem to see no problem with any of this and constantly give a "giggle" and somewhat adolescent excuse as to why your behavior and the behavior of the KID, his DAD and your husband are all justified. So, not really sure what kind of response you are looking for from us.

Good Golly Ms MOLLY(hart) indeed!

Ummm thecatlady response- she gave me advice so i know what to do about his spying if it happens again!

Sorry i don't ever hear the sexual predator term unless watching movies. But about he grocery store well my best friend is a nudist and she said when she became a nudist sshe stopped wearing underwear when shopping or other places. I felt this change too about my clothes when i began too. Just don't like tightness anymore and i read online same happened to others.

[Hopeless Dork]

You jump from oh noes my gosh i bein watchered to.. I heart wearing no panties!!! The conflict is hard to ignore... neither is the tongue in cheek way you reference the dad watching you, the boys on the bus.. we get it, 'people like you'. What that has to do with the question you brought here for advice is what makes no sense. If you are truly concerned for your own safety and the emotional health of your neighbor, follow cat lady's advice. If you just want to make a thread proclaiming your love of nudity and all your nudy friends and no panties... thats a different subject all together don't you think? Like you said, spying on people is wrong whether you are wearing clothes or not. Why you've decided to blend your no panties adventures in with a thread of being stalked is what has people scratching their heads at whether or not the question you are asking is real or not.

[ItsASecret]

I do not follow this at all, and frankly I do not buy the story. All I see is "hehe what if I said people watch me and I said I have no idea how to react even though I love it all hehehehehehe". You should be a mature young adult...not asking "what is a sexual predator??" or "is it okay that an underage child and his father are peering at me watching me nude?!?!?!". Spying is illegal, it is creepy, it should not be pushed. I know if I am tanning in my backyard I know they are going to see me because my fence is made up of thin slotted plastic strips weaved into a metal fence...you can see through it and it is only about 6 feet high. I am not going to be nude. If your fence is not made for privacy which includes height and making sure there are no visible slits for viewing eyes then it would be best not be nude. If I saw my neighbor nude I would freak out, it is not my distaste for the nudity it is the fact that I have children running around the backyard a lot and they are old enough to know when a person is naked...I do not want them to be seeing that, it is a matter of courtesy. If you want to be in the nude to tan then hop over to the nude beach where it is allowed but if your backyard is not made for privacy I would strongly suggest you keep at least your bathing suit on while you tan.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Better advice.

I wish Anon was here right now, I know the sentence he would state..

In any event, logic, pool, beach, pool, beach, nude, not nude.

You live by a nude beach apparently, so go lay there, swim there if you want to be naked.

You want to follow advice .. You are leading this boy on, end of story when in addition you have a nudist beach a stone throw away from your home where apparently you know lots of other nudists who talk about not wearing clothes, seems more stimulating converstation to me than to lay around a pool gazing at a fence, or maybe not.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I do not follow this at all, and frankly I do not buy the story.

Oh ItsASecret, shhhhhhh It's a secret....

I really only have one more question for this nonsense no sense thread, sorry wrong words... I don't anticipate being able to reply further on this subject .

Curious, where did your screen name come from? Sarawife, I get. Wifesara even, off course you don't have to answer, it's just a question....

Didn't I start a thread on our user names? mmm... goes looking.

[Guest]

HopelessDork: LanaBear asked "I mean, does that mean you can go to the grocery store with no clothes because living next to a clothing optional beach gives you the right?" That's why I mentioned how me and other nudist wear less clothes when shopping/socializing, no underwear etc.

ItsASecret: Sorry if the human body offends you, but not everyone thinks that way and that is why there are nudist colonies and home nudist families with children of all ages not wearing clothes etc.
Its up to my neighbour to decide if he wants to enforce the cover up rule. I will wear clothes in my backyard if he tells me to. I guess he decided the human body is not offensive for his son to see -not that i want him spying.

Thanks Chandler, that's why I'm following thecatlady's advice of putting an end to his spying. No need to cut him out and ignore him though
Umm i thought another sara would already have got sara_wife so i put sara_wifer. Not sure if anyone took sara_wife but just assumed plus 'wife' sounds boring compared 2 wifer.