Lately, I've been orgasming less than a minute when masturbating. With previous partners, this has happened...me lasting for just a few minutes and the man still hasn't orgasmed. Any tips? Should I just take it slow? I would like to enjoy things longer than just a minute or two. I know when I rub my clitoris really fast, I can orgasm quickly. Perhaps I should just take things slow and sensually.
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"Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet" -
Try going for multiple orgasms. Unlike men, women have the ability to rebound immediately into another orgasm.Freedom is just another word for nothing left to lose - Kris Kristofferson and Fred Foster (sung by Janis Joplin) -
Like sp346 said, keep going! This is a problem a lot of women would like to have. Sure beats the alternative.Comment
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Multiples are good. Is there any reason that you may not want to have them?I have but one lamp by which my feet are guided, and that is the lamp of experience.
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Shall we gather strength by irresolution and inaction? Shall we acquire the means of effectual resistance by lying supinely on our backs and hugging the delusive phantom of hope, until our enemies shall have bound us hand and foot?
From a speech by Patrick Henry on March 23, 1775 at St. John's Church, Richmond, VirginiaComment
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My gf is just like you, but she doesn't consider it to be a problem: she typically has a first orgasm within a minute or two, but as we continue, she has others at intervals of a minute or two, as many as 20 - 30 in an hour.
She seems to enjoy it, and I know I enjoy being the source of her pleasure!Comment
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Um, could I just be one of those women that can't have multiple orgasms? Once I have one, I feel done. I've tried going still after I've had an orgasm, but I just have that "done" feeling.
Unless you suggest to wait a little bit before starting again."Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"Comment
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You Lucky Gal .
Multiple's are Rare.
This meaning in one " Setting ". Like a 20 min Movie , Porn type, where they show it all him & her eat, then all the other stuff .
All day or Night getting to it, almost having and just wanting ... That Special feeling.
It does take men some time to Re Energize after they ejaculate.
Give him a minute or two, ask him to rub you , show him where to rub or even rub yourself and let him watch .
Takes less time to play than to watch a porn movie .
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Babygirl, I'm a bit confused. What I meant to say is that I never had a multiple orgasm. I'm much like a stereotypical man where I'm done when I'm done, haha.
Unless I'm capable of having multiples and just haven't tried it."Dating is like slow dancing. Let the man lead, or you will fall all over your feet"Comment
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