[jayjay63]

I'm a 49 year old woman who is currently single. Sadly I can only have clitoral orgasms and this has caused some problems in past relationships.

I have bought g-spot toys to help me, but alas no joy = I just can't seem to find the spot that feels great when stimulated (except for the clitoris).

Can someone please help me find this elusive g-spot.

[ItsASecret]

If you put a finger in and curve it up slightly towards your belly button and make the "come here" motion with it then it will be hitting the G-spot. It is going to feel slightly bumpy and slightly spongy, the size will vary so that is not going to help in indicating where it is. As you do the motion more you will start to feel like you have to pee. That is the G-spot being stimulated.

[Lovcookie]

From a mans side of this that is exactly where it is and how it feels to me. Correct me if I am wrong but I believe your partner would have a easier time to find it with his finger(s). It must take very good dexterity for a woman to find it easily herself. Just what I've been told.

[ItsASecret]

It is easier for the man to do it however if you use your middle finger you can often reach because that finger is the longest. It is really only about 2 inches in, sometimes less depending on how aroused the woman is and hence how much the vagina has been expanded due to that arousal. To reach it does not require extensive probing and long extensions of the finger, it merely takes general feeling around of the top wall of the vagina until you feel that bumpy area or strange "I have to pee" feeling.

[LanaBear]

It is definitely easier for a man to find, IMO. I can't touch mine at all but definitely know where it is at.