[James1978]

I've always had a fantasy / fetish for sex in dangerous situations where you are trying to either not get caught, or hide the fact that you are having sex. Before I stopped watching porn, I saw a video where a girl was trying to maintain her composure while talking on the phone to somebody while this guy was having sex with her. I thought that was super hot! Is this unusual? I've never actually done anything like this but maybe some day. Have any of you ever done it someplace dangerous? Or under try-not-to-get-caught circumstances? What's the best way to initiate something like this, or see if your partner would be interested?

[Little]

When I was a minor, I got caught by the cops with my boyfriend half-naked in the backseat. It sucked, they called our parents, all that jazz. And if I had been an adult, there would have been serious consequences, like a public indecency charge. Not to pooh-pooh your fantasy, just to show you the serious side if you seek to play it out 100% ... or understand if a partner would be unwilling to do it. I will never, ever have sex in public again; the risk is not "sexy" to me anymore.
As for whether it's unusual, I don't think so. More unusual to get caught.

[ItsASecret]

Personally I do not want to see people going at it in public no matter where I am, if I see it I have no issues calling the cops. I will never in a million years do it because of the possible consequences. Be mindful of where things occur and who could accidently see, if a child just so happens to be in the neighborhood and hence could potentially see that is an even greater charge. It is fine to have fantasies but I definitely agree with Little that there is a serious side to this, and not everyone shares the same fantasy and hence they will not want to see it occurring in their neighborhood.

[James1978]

I don't think it necessarily has to be in a highly-visible, public place. Maybe it's not really even the idea of getting caught as much as it is a turn on to see a girl trying to maintain her composure. I've also heard that there are wireless, remote controll "eggs" or panties that vibrate. I think it would be hot, along the same lines, to have my girl wear one of those and be able to keep the remote in my pocket so I can buzz her whenever I want to.

[ItsASecret]

I was curious of those vibrating underwear things when my bf mentioned it, then he bought it, so we tried it out and I can say I was quite disappointed. It has no difference in how fast or slow you want the vibrations and they are loud...really not possible to be discrete. And it simply being against my skin is by no means arousing, I need to be moving my hips or having it pushed very close to my body while using a vibrator on my skin and it is quite uncomfortable to sit on it lol. Honestly if you want a girl to "maintain" composure while occupied simply ask her to masturbate herself and then call you, then per your request ask her to try and keep it as composed as possible.

[DreamP346]

Being in dangerous situation is a turn off/fantasy for many people. There are things that I have done like touch each other under the blanket on a plane or had sex while out hiking in a very remote area. They are all public places but very unlikely that we would get caught. Legally not advisable, but a fantasy for many people.

[LilahX]

These sort of fantasies, or actually acting them out, are not unusual at all. My partner and I love nothing more than 'being naughty' iin semi public places. We love going to our favourite intimate bar which has a lovely secluded corner where we can sit out of sight and I can give him (quick) oral sex or he can slip his hand under my skirt. We've had sex in car parks, in back doorways of restaurants, secluded laneways in the city. It's a lot of fun and we haven't been 'caught' yet altho we may have been seen without us knowing.

Next time you're at a bar or somewhee that's semi private just let her know you think it'd be hot if you could touch her while others didn't know what he was doing and guage her response. If she's definitely anti then don't push the point but if she doesn't dismiss it, don't necessarily pursue it there and then but use it as a starting point to talk about it. Anticipation is very erotic and you could plan where you could go for your first foray into this exciting adventure. It can be a lot of very sexy fun. Good luck.

[Faerunner]

It's definitely not an unusual fantasy, or there wouldn't be so much porn of people going at it in public places! :P

The fantasy's hot as heck, but actually getting caught is a total turn-off... gotta balance those two really carefully if you planned on going through with it. And movie theaters are so cliché...