[WannaBee]

Hi all,

so me and my g/f had anal sex the other day.

During everything was, as it should be. Pleasurable for both of us, though I must admit that I like it better than she does.

Now here's my problem:
Afterwards, over the next few days, she has many BMs, which, I quote "empty out her bowels to the last bit".
There is no pain and there are no accidents in her undies, so this not a major medical issue.
However, it does dampen her desire for anal.

So, does anyone got some smart ideas, how to normalize her intestial activities without resolving to the gifts from the pharmaceuticals?
Firstly, shortening and shallower penetration seem like obvious ideas. However, this is not exactly the kind of advise I was after....

I should add, that anal is only sporadically on our menue and this issue has always been a problem.

[PinkySweet]

The fews time Ive done anal with my husband, Usually the next day I have a few bm's... I'm not sure if its normal or not lol

[Ashlee T.]

I'm not sure there is really any solution to this. Physically, we're not made for things to go "there". For some people, it causes no issue. For others, it causes a barage of them. For me, I could only moderately enjoy anal because I knew that afterwards I'd feel sore and sensitive there, THEN when I did need to go to the bathroom it was painful. To add to the fun, yes, it did seem like I had go more often, or at least I felt the pressure to go even when I didn't really need to. I also had a lot of gas as a result.

If you enjoy it that much, my advice is just be thankful she's willing to do it all. Would you be willing to do it?

[Aprilily]

That happens to me too. I just figured it's normal since that area doesn't always get "stimulated" like that. We don't do it often though, because I know the next day will be uncomfortable for me.

[BabyGirl]

A good post I read during Research about Anal .

Anal sex enthusiasts can relax (a good thing to do during anal sex!), because contrary to what you heard, anal sex does not loosen the anus or cause an inability to control bowel movements. However, there can be risks associated with anal sex other than sexually transmitted infections (STIs), so it's important to take steps to minimize these risks.

Friction, the enemy of pleasure and safety during sex,is produced during anal sex, much as it is during vaginal sex. However, friction may be more of an issue during anal sex because the lining of the anus is more delicate and produces less natural lubricant than the vagina.

Steps to safer anal sex include:

Being very gentle and moving slowly
Using plenty of lubricants (not just saliva)
Using a condom
Avoiding spermicide, which may irritate the rectum
Never moving from anal to vaginal sex without first changing condoms
Stopping if there is severe pain during penetration

Anal sex may make a person more susceptible to bacterial infection around the anus and rectum. This is because the lining of the rectum is not as heavy as the lining of the vagina, so it is more susceptible to tears. If the anus or rectum does get torn, it does not heal as quickly. Because feces that pass through the rectum contain bacteria, any tear in the lining is at risk of getting infected. Lining tears may lead to other problems such as an anal abscess, which can make transmission of STIs and HIV more likely. This is why unprotected anal sex is often considered riskier than unprotected oral or vaginal sex. The tips above will help you avoid tears and other uncomfortable complications.

In extreme cases, a tear in the lining can develop into a fissure (a larger tear or crack) and may extend outside of the bowel. This is called a fistula and it is a significant medical issue because it allows feces to pass outside of the bowel, and requires major surgery to repair.

Additionally, there is some suggestion that anal sex may worsen existing hemorrhoids, so you may want to carefully consider anal sex activities if you have them. Pregnancy is not a concern during anal sex (unless vaginal sex is also included on your agenda). And although you already seem aware, it is important to mention that STIs, including HIV, can be passed to or from an anal sex partner, so using condoms is always a good idea.

So, whether you are a beginner, an old hat, or simply curious, you can relax, move slowly, and enjoy.

BUT... Like BD, I believe that our Bodies aren't made for Entry there. I have never had Anal, nor will I. I guess it's just me, But for some reason , I believe that the Anus is an pre-extension ( or Preclude ) to a Toilet or Sewer. The Body Throws out the Waste through it, Therefore even with gloves ( condom ) I would not willingly stick any part of my body in there. Ewww.
Then again I even had problems wiping my 4 kids butts and cleaning up messy Feces.

But , I will admit I did look up Anal Pic's, or I should say Results from Long Term Anal Sex, such as Fisting. Those Pic's were enough to reconfirm, Nothing will enter that Area on me. I'm sure I would have to be " Drugged to Unconsciousness " to even go through a Colonoscopy.. Lmao

But to those who feel it is OK to go where ones Body is designed to Exit Body Waste . Just be Careful, Be Safe, use a Proper Sterilization and Lubricant, just as any Dr. must, to avoid contamination, when doing the Anal Exams.

You might Google or Search more on this Subject. The Safety, the Stimulation, the Reason or Desire of ... Why the Vaginal or even Oral, is not enough to Sexually Satisfy ?

[DSemcho]

Me and my husband do anal frequently, and I got to admit sometimes I get off harder when we're doing that. But that could be because he's hitting parts of my clitoris that has never been hit before. (The entire clitoris also wraps around your vagina) As far as the BM's, I also have to go more frequently the next day, especially if he cummed inside of me while doing anal. But I never have the problem of not being able to control my BM's.

[WannaBee]

We always use a condom.
Whenever she tells me to use more lube, we do use more lube.

I know that the anus has not been designed to be pentrated from the outside and yes at times I enjoy having my backside stimulated.

It is not the problem to control the BMs. It's just that there are many of them, which always yield considerable results.

[SweetPeaches]

Ah that's normal, it happens to me hhahha! And it hurts to poop. I usually try not poop after anal sex because it hurts bad if I try to poop. You have to remember that hole is not meant to put something in there. Even though I love anal sex. I'm not a doctor so I'm not sure what to say hehehe.

[lindseylou]

I think it's the extra lube and cum that causes extra bm's the next day. Sometimes, if I know we're going to have anal sex(ie, I feel like offering!) I will use one of those saline enemas earlier in the day. You can get them at the drug store. It helps me to be "empty" before we get started.

[DSemcho]

Using an enema doesn't feel weird? I've thought about doing one before I know we're gonna have anal sex, but I'd just feel weird.....