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  • avvie_88
    Member
    • May 2012
    • 42

    He Deserves Better! Oral Help!

    My fiancee produces a LARGE amount of pre-cum from the onset of being frisky to the finale. That being said, the sheer amount (as well as the texture and saltiness--even when he drinks his pineapple juice haha) of it makes it a little unpleasant (and challenging) for me to preform oral. I was wondering if any other women had this same issue with their man? If so, is there anything I can do to get past it? I feel horrible "sucking it up" because I love my fiancee, obviously.
    The only other comparison I've had hardly produced ANY pre-cum at all and I would get nothing but praise on my performance. My fiancee enjoys himself very much as well, but I know it's not as enjoyable as it could/should be for him.
    My fiancee is returning from deployment very soon, so I'd like to be able to "step my game up," so to speak. Any ideas? Tricks?
  • menatwork
    Junior Member
    • Apr 2012
    • 5

    Well I am a guy, I can't see it so much from female's perspective but maybe if you spit on it and rub it down a little with your hand it might help. Keeping it in your mouth will cause you to produce more saliva as well, which will take away the precum. Another idea is to squeze and pull his penis a little to take away all the liquid inside it. After cleaning it you can continue. I hope it helps.

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    • avvie_88
      Member
      • May 2012
      • 42

      You said what I've been doing. Haha Which it does help, but I think it takes away from some of the enjoyment for both of us.

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      • menatwork
        Junior Member
        • Apr 2012
        • 5

        You can use flavoured condoms as well, that way you don't have to taste any of his precum. Whipped cream is another thing to use maybe if you don't mind getting a few more calories extra, it might make the taste better for you.

        In addition, you might want to try doing it after he comes for one time. Second time he will surely release less amount of precum.

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        • Ashlee T.
          Veteran Member
          • Dec 2008
          • 6412

          I can't think of the name of it, but I have a flavored lube that works wonders. As long as he's not irritated by it, it's awesome. I bought it at a store called "Spencers". It comes in all kinds of different flavors, tastes goods, and heats up a tad when it's applied so it feels good for him too. Only thing is it can get a bit sticky if you use TOO much. This in addition with the other suggestion is about all you can do. But instead of stopped and sort of obviously squeezing it out, try to make it part of the fun. You wouldn't have to do it ALOT throughout to at least minimize the precum. But my thoughts are that the flavored lube is the way to go. Strawberry is my favorite.
          "Be what you're looking for."

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          • avvie_88
            Member
            • May 2012
            • 42

            I think I could convince him to try the flavored condom thing...could be fun! I'm not sure whipped cream would mask much, but it's also worth a shot...that'll just take a little planning for a change. haha
            And from the first suggestion, with trying to rub it down, and squeeze it out--it wasn't super obvious, but just way too stop and start. That's what was taking away from the experience.
            I'll definitely check out the flavored lubes in Spencer's! We tried a flavored lube before, but it was TERRIBLE. We threw it after after the first time.

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            • mape11
              Junior Member
              • May 2012
              • 2

              Originally posted by avvie_88
              I think I could convince him to try the flavored condom thing...could be fun! I'm not sure whipped cream would mask much, but it's also worth a shot...that'll just take a little planning for a change. haha
              And from the first suggestion, with trying to rub it down, and squeeze it out--it wasn't super obvious, but just way too stop and start. That's what was taking away from the experience.
              I'll definitely check out the flavored lubes in Spencer's! We tried a flavored lube before, but it was TERRIBLE. We threw it after after the first time.
              I believe its called Goodhead gel. And it had a numbing agent. So it can help you take more. And I'm sure your man would enjoy that.

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              • Simone3
                Junior Member
                • May 2012
                • 4

                LOL... just control and wipe... thats what I do.. my husbands is very acidic but i still manage to do it for him..

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