[CHANDLERS WISH]

Honey he smokes what?

Shisha,

Erm, dope? Marijuana?

Ya know that this stuff hightens the senses.

Look sweet, he wants you to be a virgin and marry you , yay Fatin... If you don't like ANAL Tell him NO, don't every try it and make that clear, dope or no dope.

It is normal for you to be normal, sexually interested.. Can you wait until marriage because he wants to? That's your question.. Do you love him deeply sweet?

If you were to be a non virgin why would that matter as he is wanting to marry you, I don't understand..I get the Virgin until married. But if you are "his " virgin, do you see what I am saying. ?

You need to talk with him and put boundries or to take away some pending on how you both feel and where you are both at. Ultimately though LOVE is real... How do you feel about him.

[Guest]

Hahahaha, I'm just laughing at the beginning of this^ post. Shisha, like hookah. It's a wet tobacco you smoke from a pipe, well hookah pipe. 16 year olds are allowed to go to hookah bars and smoke, for goodness sake. And marijuana does not heighten senses, if anything it dulls them. That's why marijuana is medical. People use it to replace pain killers. Plus, it's safer since you can get addicted and over dose on pain killers, marijuana you cannot.

And I have no idea what this means:

If you don't like ANAL Tell him NO, don't every try it and make that clear, dope or no dope.

She should never try anal ever if he's smoke marijuana or not? What does marijuana even have to do with anyone's sex life? And why shouldn't she ever try anal? I can understand she might just not want to, but if she sometime down the line has an interest in it, why can't she?

I really don't get why girls are so against anal. Yeah, it hurts at first. Once you get past the initial pain, it feels really good. Plus, it sometimes doesn't hurt at all if he's really slow and gentle and there's plenty of lube.

[Fatin]

i think i know what you're trying to say .. and yes i can wait till we get married if that's your question!!! .. well i dont know a bout the smoking, i mean shisha is also called hookah :/ the good thing a bout it that it does NOT cause an addiction so he told me hes not addict to it.

If you were to be a non virgin why would that matter as he is wanting to marry you.

hum, it doesn't matter, really but just to be on the safe side, i mean a single problem may ruin everything. and who knows things might change and we dont end up together

[Fatin]

I really don't get why girls are so against anal. Yeah, it hurts at first. Once you get past the initial pain, it feels really good. Plus, it sometimes doesn't hurt at all if he's really slow and gentle and there's plenty of lube.

it's PAINFUL i tried it like billion times and its painful even if he went gentle and smooth :/

[Guest]

It is at the beginning, once he's in a certain amount, it doesn't hurt anymore. Lube is a butt's best friend. Also, it really really helps to distract yourself from the pain by touching yourself. I mean, it REALLY helps to touch yourself.

[Fatin]

touching my self?? lol no thanks I think i'll go with the lube

[rosekitten]

Fatin, I'm not sure I understand your apparent repulsion with stimulating yourself? Sometimes the guy can't get to stimulate some areas because of what he's doing, so why not help yourself along? It makes things easier and more enjoyable. Instead of writhing in agony, you're distracted by pleasure. What is so wrong with that? Besides, the extra stimulation will relax you, and make insertion much less painful.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Hahahaha, I'm just laughing at the beginning of this^ post. Shisha, like hookah. It's a wet tobacco you smoke from a pipe, well hookah pipe. 16 year olds are allowed to go to hookah bars and smoke, for goodness sake.

Thank you for the explanation and Fatin has been with us for quite some time, she knows my sense of humor... OR acting like a "Mom" on this Forum.

for goodness sake

I beg your pardon?

And marijuana does not heighten senses, if anything it dulls them. That's why marijuana is medical. People use it to replace pain killers. Plus, it's safer since you can get addicted and over dose on pain killers, marijuana you cannot.

If you are going to quote something, ensure you are factual, or offer it as an "opinion" such as " I believe " ... Otherwise, purely and simply you are not debating rather, arguing that I or another poster on our Forum are/is wrong and you are right.

Frankly, the only thing right you got there, was that marijuana is deemed to be good as a medicinal method to help pain..

However, it most certainly can be addicted 100%. It can lead to people also taking other drugs. It is illegal in alot of places therefore can not be used as a pain killer and, it "sexually" does highten a person.. Non sexual, it may dull the thought pattern whereby a person "chills"...